Why do I find older girls (25-30) more attractive? Is it because I expect that it would be easier to attract younger girls? Because it is a challenge?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe you feel the need to be nurtured by an older woman. Maybe you want an experienced older woman to teach you about sex. Maybe you have an unresolved Oedipus complex. Maybe you like the physical appearance of slightly more mature women. Maybe attracting an older woman gets you bragging rights with your friends.

How do we know what you think or feel if YOU don't know?

[Avicenna]

It’s normal- they’re more confident and comfortable with themselves

[Asker]

Maybe. Or maybe I feel validated that someone who normally would be into older guys would find me attractive

[Avicenna]

Women are attracted to guys, not numbers.

[Asker]

But you know that "he is older => more mature and more established" thing

[maj1nall]

Normal. Mature women are more attractive