Girls, what do you REALLY look for in a guy?

[ThatGuyAaron]

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I suppose this includes partners in general, doesn't necessarily need to be a man.

[mandyfire98]

Confidence, charisma, great personality, attractive to me, chemistry between us, somebody who takes Care of themselves, somebody who is caring, loving, empathetic, sympathetic, passionate, a high sex drive is preferred because I have one so sexual compatibility as a whole is important to me. Open minded, a bit adventurous, a bit spontaneous. Somebody who isn't against sharing me with my girlfriend because that's non negotiable.

[northerngal]

Not an easy question to answer... there are so many factors. Every human is an individual. But without doubt too things I look for... in fact are mandatory are respect and empathy. Respect for themselves and for others and empathy towards other humans and the complexities of life. The two go hand in hand.

[ThatGuyAaron]

Great answer! I figured it would be a more difficult question to answer given how many traits there are to look for in a partner, but I guess I was interested in what things girls look for outside of the obvious. I definitely think that respect and empathy are great things to look for in a partner, or even just in the people you surround yourself with.

[northerngal]

I demand the same of my friends... your partner is your best friend so it goes without saying I may demand even higher standards from him.

[ThatGuyAaron]

A good partner should definitely be willing to meet their standards, even if that means improving themselves!

[northerngal]

Thats a slippery slope... I would never ask a partner to change themselves. I committed to them for a reason. However everyone should always want to improve themselves.

[ThatGuyAaron]

That's more of what I meant. A good partner should always looking to be bettering themselves.

[northerngal]

Everyone should... the day i stop learning and growing is the day I hopefully die. In fact that might be the last big lesson.

[jazzyjic78]

Cleanliness in his body, vehicle, and crib. A great sense of humor, respect, knowledge, courage, wisdom, compassion, understanding, spiritual not religious, hard working, can cook, and if he can't fix nothing around the house he can afford to call someone in to fix it, a provider doesn't mind spoiling me, family oriented and loves children and someone I can pray with, a family that prays together stays together.

And I like a guy that's open to talk and say what he really wants, likes, feels, and desires. A closed mouth doesn't get fed, he can't expect me to read his mind we have to have an open line of communication to connect with each other so that we can be on one accord, same level, understand one another.

He has to like to cuddle up and chill together, even if it's just us we can make our own party and have fun together. And he has to be willing to stand up for me, fight for me, pursue me and love me. I have to know that we got each others back, it's just not a one way street. Always for himself and selfish is a turn off.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

Authenticity, empathy, a healthy work ethic, self-control and a growth and learning mindset. Someone with good principles, secure in themselves, and able to work through conflict in an understanding way. Someone who challenges me to be better in an encouraging way.

[ThatGuyAaron]

Thank you Pepper, you were great in Iron Man 🙏

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@ThatGuyAaron Thanks! It was a great experience sharing our lives with the public, and I miss it sometimes. :D

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

A great personality. Someone who is funny, kind, sweet, and generous. Someone with green eyes doesn't hurt either.

[ThatGuyAaron]

I definitely look for someone who can make me laugh or at least allows me to make them laugh! I guess blue eyes aren't going to get the job done 😂

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Lol they get the job done well enough. I'll just get lost in the green eyes a bit more.

[ThatGuyAaron]

Fair enough. Maybe some green colored contacts will get the job done lol

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

There you go 😉

Now you have the right idea lol

[ThatGuyAaron]

One step closer! 😅

[WintersDaughter]

Shared religion, shared values/morals, shared life outlook (aka we have similar ideas on what we want our lifestyle to be). A sense of humor, strong, loyal, a good man. Wants kids. Wants to be healthy and work out. Stuff like that.

[Aishakaba]

Someone who makes me feel safe, protected, taken care of. Someone who I don't have to question their intention. Someone who I can trust which in turn will allow me to be vulnerable and submissive.

[CrabCakes11]

A personality I like and being physically attractive to me. The second part usually develops over time

[At3mis24]

No beard, never drunk, no drugs, no smoking and not fat

[HappyWoman34]

Kind, intelligent, funny, good looking, loyal, grounded, honest. A bit quirky.

[DizzyDesii]

The good traits about myself as well as similar morals, interests, values, personality etc

[SunflowerSAS]

Intelligence, humble, kind and Caring. Definitely someone who will accept me for who I am. Should have patience and just a loving human being.

[Anonymous]

Start with the complete opposite of the guy in the photo and start from there.

[whistlingwh0res]

His attitude toward goal jobs family