Girls, what do you really look for in a guy?

[Anonymous]

I feel like many girls undermine how much looks in guys matter in terms of dating. Probably because they dont want to be seen as shallow.

so yea, just go anonymous and tell what you really look for when meeting a guy snd wanting a relationship.

[iiinsOMNIA]

Okay, I'm gonna be completely honest.

Looks are one of the most important things to me, and money. Yes, I'm shallow. But the overarching problem I have with men is that the ones I've met are stupidly unable to converse. They can't have real conversations with me for some reason. Why is it so difficult for them to talk to me about literature, astronomy, music, art, psychology, whatever? From the looks of it, the only thing passing through their brains is "Man, how can I find the stupidest way to make everyone around me mildly uncomfortable?"

Sorry for the short vent. Anyway, the things important to me in a guy are:
1.) Brains. I want to have a deep conversation with the guy.
2.) Looks. Because I'm not trying to make my kids ugly with the unnecessary amount of beauty standards nowadays.
3.) Humour. I'm a funny chick. You better match my energy.
4.) Money. Doesn't have to be a six-figure job, but don't be leeching off of me. I come from a family of African americans and Asians. If I want to show up at Christmas, my only career choices are lawyer or doctor. I'm gonna be a wealthy woman. At least have a job that pays enough to contribute.

[silvermoon84]

Physical attraction is important to a certain extent but if the looks aren’t there he can make up for it with a sense of humor. I want him to be in my age bracket (but I’m open to older guys too), Christian with good moral character and a kind heart. Also I don’t want him to be from this town. I live in the suburbs of one of the biggest cities in the world yet the people here STILL have this weird small town mentality of dating and getting married to other people in this town and just staying here until they die. I’m not knocking that lifestyle however I’ve always known it wasn’t the life for me. I want to find someone who is open to leaving the state as that is my plan in the next few years or simply leaving on my own and finding someone in the location that I move to.

[Guy13]

Leadership, kind heart, ability to support them and children, power under control.

[jennifer_bloom]

The main thing I value is emotional support, Cooperativeness and drama free time and attention from him. A guy that appreciates me is very attractive because it makes being with him and doing my half of the work all the more rewarding and fulfilling.

[CoolCatMar1]

I already said that many times here of course looks matter. But personality matters too. Me personally, i would never date a guy I don't find GORGEOUS

[Snedger____]

Would you date someone who look so handsome, but asshole

[CoolCatMar1]

@Snedger____ like i SAID they should have a nice personality too

[Snedger____]

Cool

[CoolCatMar1]

@Snedger____ yeah personality matters a lot to me TBH

[Jdjfjfks]

@CoolCatMar1 but are you gorgeous?

[CoolCatMar1]

@Jdjfjfks yes i think i am pretty, and my boyfriend also finds be stunning that's why he approached me (and he didn't like any girld before me for 6 years ) and people are just me tell me that too. Why do you care though lmao😹? I don't care if you find me unattractive i found who i wanted😹

[CoolCatMar1]

@Jdjfjfks sorry for spelling errors i just type very fast

[Jdjfjfks]

Of course he would say that to you. He just wants some pussy 🐱

[CoolCatMar1]

@Jdjfjfks go troll someone else i am really not in the mood bye

[Lisa2332]

Sexy, good personality, someone I can fully trust, and a huge cock.

[dustybiker]

Reliable, honest, thoughtful. Good starting foundation.

[DancingQueen16]

A sense of humor, kindness, intelligence, sweetness and a nice personality

[SplatoonFan2]

Some looks to matter but if guy is too good looking. I will assume he is a player. Is more about being repecful, trustworthy , hosnet and learn from each other.

[CoolCatMar1]

This isn't true actually

[SplatoonFan2]

You're not true about me and you don't know my experience with some guys

[CoolCatMar1]

Not ALL good looking guys are players

[SplatoonFan2]

Not my ex boyfriend they were good looking and was a players and cheater.

[PinkRose24]

No one said looks don't matter.

[Anonymous]

Kindness, sense of humor, honestly.

[Anonymous]

Their circus bike

[Anonymous]

Money and comfort