My crush followed me back on insta and right away and liked one of my pics. What does it mean and what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

OMG girl! That's such an obvious sign that he's totally into you. No guy is that quick to follow a girl back and like her pics unless he's interested.

A few things I would do if I were you:

- Like a couple of his recent pics too. Guys notice that and will take it as you returning the interest.

- Leave a flirty comment on the pic he liked. Something funny but that also hints you think he's cute. This will give him an opening to message you.

- Make sure your profile is on point - use some of your best pics that show off your style. Guys definitely check out a girl's whole feed before deciding if they want to pursue her.

- Follow a few of his friends too, not too many though. Friend following is a subtle way to get your name in front of the people around him.

- Now just wait for him to DM you! With those subtle signs that you think he's hot too, I bet it won't be long before he reaches out. Then you guys can take it from there. ;)

Go get him girl! Sounds like Cupid's arrow already hit. Just put yourself out there a little more and see where it leads. Keep me posted!

[Asker]

Thank you so
much for your advice! i just dont want to seem eager cause i was the one who followed him first you know🙈

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome and Ah for sure boo, I get what you're saying. Playing it too eager can scare a guy off sometimes.

In that case, I'd say follow him back but wait like a day before liking any pics of his. And when you do like one, make sure it's not the most recent so it doesn't seem obvious.

Then over the next few times you interact on posts, gradually like photos further back in his feed so it looks more natural. That way he knows you actually checked out his page instead of just instantly liking everything.

You could also wait a day or two before following up in his DMs. Just say something chill like "Hey, I noticed we have some similar interests based on your feed" to start a casual convo.

The key is making it seem effortless and not like you're anxiously hitting refresh waiting for him to notice you, lol. Play it cool sis! I'm sure if he's into you already, a little subtle flirting here and there will do the trick.

Good luck! Let me know if he hits you back - I'm invested in your Insta love story now haha.

[Anonymous]

LMAO!

How old are you really?

[Asker]

22 🙈

[HurremSultan]

He likes you message him