Did she lose interest? can I get her back?

[Anonymous]

For 3 months
I was talking with my closest female friend
We were texting every day
Talking about our childhood
What we want in relationships
Our past experiences
And our future expectations
At one point we talked about the amount of money I make and whether it would be enough to support a family in the future
At some point
There is nothing else to talk about
The only remaining thing is to ask her out

But I was a little worried risk my closest female friend and I took over a month thinking

The messages became less and less

We are not talking like we used to for a few weeks

I feel every thing cooled down for over a month now
Is it still a good time to tell her now that I want to date her?

[ruby_mk]

you have to be very sure if she in actually was ever interested in you and only if you are sure then ask her out. If she was interested in you previously chances are she will be now too



There are ways where u can tell if she is interested:


If she initiated conversation more than one time with you in all these months
If she gave you sincere compliment more than one time
If She has hinted that there is no one else in her life romantically speaking and she is seeking to settle down etc


She has appreciated you or has been vocal if she enjoyed conversations with you.


My advice don’t ask her directly just text her and start talking to her again and then smoothly suggest if you guys can go sometimes for coffee or lunch not hinting that you have feelings for her. If she shows interest or agrees with you let her know how you feel analyzing the situation during your moment in person and then you can suggest to take a more serious step


Tip: usually women who friendzone a guy it mostly means they don’t find you attractive and they have other better options. And they usually end up dating the guy they “friendzone” is either because it didn’t work out with the other guy or they have no option and are getting old