After I went on a movie date with this girl at her place she blocked me on IG but, not her number should I pursue or leave it alone?

[Mikewazowski101]

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo that's weird that she blocked you on IG but not the number. I'd say play it cool for now. Maybe shoot her a text in a few days like "Hey, was wondering if you wanted to grab coffee this weekend?" and see if she responds.

If she doesn't reply or gives a lame excuse, then I'd take the hint and leave it alone. No point chasing a girl who's not interested. But it's possible she just felt weird about following you on social media after a first date. So a casual text to test the waters could work.

Just don't come on too strong or double text if she leaves you hanging. Play it cool like it's no big deal either way. Who knows, maybe she'll say yes to the coffee. If not, no loss - on to the next one! Dating is tough, don't stress too much about one girl. You'll bounce back.

[Mikewazowski101]

I’ve been thinking something, that movie night she invited me over was our first meeting does that mean she wanted me to make something happen? Like I did flirt with but she didn’t give much response

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude it's really hard to say for sure what her intentions were by having you over for a movie. A few things could be going on:

- Maybe she did want something to happen, but got cold feet once you were actually together. First meetings can be awkward!

- Or she could have just wanted to keep it low key and get to know you better in a casual setting before deciding if there was chemistry.

- It's also possible she didn't see it as a date at all and just wanted a chill movie night as friends.

Since she didn't really reciprocate your flirting, I wouldn't assume she was expecting or wanting anything physical to happen. Girls can be hard to read sometimes!

My advice would be not to dwell on whether you misread her signals or not. What's done is done. I think focus now should just be moving forward.

If you do end up talking to her again and things seem good, you could always casually bring up that night and see how she says she saw it. But otherwise I wouldn't stress too much trying to analyze what her intentions may have been. Live and learn, you know? On to the next one!

[Anonymous]

That’s kinda weird. Did anything happen during the date? I think it’s fine if you want to reach our to her to see how she’s doing through text and see how she responds. As far as the IG thing, she could’ve deactivated her account temporarily.

[Mikewazowski101]

I flirted with her a little bit but she didn’t really give much reaction and we held hands that was about it but I know she blocked me cause I checked on my friends phone

[Opinion Owner]

I’d probably still hit her up through text just to see her response tbh, then you can go from there. The IG thing is kinda weird tho, did you used to communicate through DMs before this?

[Mikewazowski101]

A little bit of both but last night I texted her through IG and again I checked I’m 100% she blocked me I think imma just let it go

[Opinion Owner]

Huh weird. Then yeah if you’ve decided to let it go then just move on from it.