Is dating even worth it?

[Anonymous]

Like at my job I’m just seeing the people there and there’s married people with kids cheating, people in relationships cheating, husbands coming to work confronting guys talking to their wife. It just seems like a hassle. Then I see it with the celebrities too cheating a lot in that world. Like and my first relationship she lied about being single then I found out a blocked her.

[Ευδεμονια]

Let’s honestly say the relationships everyone of us can see all around are a complete disaster.
But they are only from an external perspective, since things can be perceived as less harsh if you’re in it.
Said that, I think it’s worth it since only through that you can find the right person. I honestly repented to have excluded every dating opportunity for years and now I’m suffering from my solitude. Maybe now you don’t realise but if you give up on dating already, you can end up alone for long time.

[OfMiceandMen]

I think so, you provide only worse-case/negative type examples above, there is the other end of the spectrum where the couples love each other and are making it work.

I think most people tend to be fixated on the negative side of things, for instance only bad/scandalous news sells.

[LazerBean]

Marriage is only meant for high quality people. So it is not meant for and not worth it for the vast majority of people today.

[Anonymous]

no it's not worth it

people who say it's worth it are speaking from an emotional perspective

of course, if you find the "right one" it's worth it (emotionally)

but logically and statistically speaking? hell no it's not worth it

hoeflation is real and bad women are pedestalized by weak men

[mayurr]

🤣🤣

[mayurr]

Modern grandmother 😂

[boggboss]

Its like me making the statement is their a point in living when their are so many people suffering and its so hars

[Asker]

I feel you it’s just I’m not trying to be out here wasting time looking like a fool for dating someone that’ll go for anything that’s got d. But obviously there are some loyal ones out there

[boggboss]

Its just with anything part of it was a roll of the dice

[Anonymous]

No, it's expensive and serves no practical purpose

[Anonymous]

Not to me.