I prefer tiny boobs. Is that ok?

[Lonelyloser]

I’m a heterosexual male who prefers women who have little to no boobs at all. I’ve noticed women are sometimes sensitive when it comes to their own breast size. Often feeling inadequate if they aren’t larger. Which I feel is ridiculous since I don’t like them large at all. What is the best way to articulate that to a smaller breasted woman I’d like to date without coming off as the creepy guy she’d rather call the cops on?

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1 y

Alright, so a lot of the same question comes up in the comments “why does boob size need to come up at all?” Obviously, I need to elaborate specifics. I’m really into this girl. We’ve been good friends for years. She, on the other hand is with somebody else and has been as long as I’ve known her. For reasons of good form, I don’t mess around with people who are in relationships. Her boyfriend often makes fun of her openly for having a “boy chest”. She tells me she’s thinking of getting augmented

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1 y

I like her just the way she is. But it seems like his opinion matters to her more than anyone else.

[D_Bone_Steak]

You're not alone. I personally think C-cup is a perfect size, but I don't mind smaller as long as she's very effeminate looking. They tend to have an ectomorphic body shape which I also find ideal for effeminate women.

Remember the 80's before hip-hop seemingly changed everything? It used to be something you wouldn't question yourself about and asking if it is okay. The trend started with bigger boobs, then big boobs and butts, and now... you're asking if it's even okay to like the other sizes. Somehow the trends took over to the point that everybody conformed. Plenty of "would of been" hot girls out there that are just fat now because they're trying to fit that trend and their body isn't made to be a thick rap video girl.

I hope a woman reads your question and finds out she can be hot and not get obese. To just be herself and just be healthy. People need to stop trying to be something they're not.

[loveslongnails]

For starters, "not liking big boobs" is your preference. Why ask if that's ok? You like what you like. If you're seeking validation to find out if other men have the same preference, rest assured there are plenty of men who prefer small breasted women.

Next point is that liking "no boobs at all" may raise some eyebrows for different reasons which I don't wish to discuss here, and only you can answer anyway.

Last point: There is NO NEED to articulate your preference to a woman you'd like to date!! Whatever you say you WILL come off creepy because, well, you'd BE creepy to mention it! You'd also sound like a condescending little shit. Whether you know the woman you wish to potentially date or not, what are you going to say? "Hey, I'd love to date you because you've got a great personality, you're fun, you're positive, you're pretty, etc. AND, I really like that you have small boobs and want to let you know you shouldn't feel inadequate as a woman because of that!"

That's when she tells you to fuck off. So keep quiet about your preference until such time when SHE might bring it up, if EVER. After you've been together for years, you can tell her your little secret at the right moment, and in a way that doesn't make yourself sound like a jerk.

PS > Reverse the situation - would you tell a woman she's on top of your dating preference list because she had BIG boobs and you really like that?

[CindyRuns]

Very simple -- tell the woman you're with how attracted you are to them and think they're perfect as they are.

I'd also add that I've experienced being smaller and bigger up top. For years, I was a 34B... as a result of breastfeeding my kids, I was a "tight D cup" ... and after weaning my 2nd daughter, I sort of settle in at 36C.

I must say, my current size is just right... not too big and not too small !!!

[AmandaYVR]

Of course.

Guys, dudes, and gentlemen: does her boob size make a difference to whether you are attracted?

[OlderAndWiser]

All you need to do is to tell her that you think she is quite lovely, or that she looks like your idea of the perfect woman. Talk about her boobs too early and you'll be labeled a creep.

[AviatorTom]

Everyone is entitled to their own preferences.

[blueonblack22]

It’s fine. I’m actually similar except I like small breasts but definitively not “no breasts”.

My last ex (who was 26 and very tall) had very tiny breaste that weren’t proportionate to her body at all. It didn’t really like it but it was much better then oversized fake boobs (which screams “insecure hoe” to me).

But you might get some very unfair judgment from some stupid women out there (calling you a “pedo” or some disgusting bs). I doubt you are. But you don’t need to go around saying that out loud. Preferences are preferences.

[DishLady]

I sure hope so. There are large segments of the female community with smaller (AA-C) tatas! Go to Paris, Japan, etc. where the average female is not excessively endowed,

You don't need to articulate that specific point, you can simply approach the woman of interest without staring at her boobs (till after you've chatted her up and at least taken her for a walk, a coffee or something).

[HappyWoman34]

I think it’s fine. You worry too much. There are definitely men who find each female body and personality type appealing. You’re not wrong for having a preference. But definitely don’t compliment her on her small breasts (until you’re in a serious relationship). Just tell her you think she’s pretty before then and ask her out.

[blueonblack22]

Some women will call and label men “pedos” for just saying that.

[HappyWoman34]

@blueonblack22 those women are toxic.

[blueonblack22]

I know. But I notice that fewer and fewer men get away with calling women “sluts, whores, etc” but it seems like more and more women are calling men “creeps, pedos, etc.”.

And calling someone a “pedo” is a very deep insult. Much worse then calling someone a “hoe”. Ironically these women are taking the sting out of the insult since they overuse those insults so much.

[HappyWoman34]

@blueonblack22 that must be very hurtful and offensive. They’re probably jealous because they’re not your type.

[blueonblack22]

It’s usually that. Insecurity. But still can grown men get away with calling women “hoes” out of insecurity? I’m talking grown women vs grown men here.

Anyway thanks for hearing me out. :)

[HappyWoman34]

@blueonblack22 no worries 😊

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

Easy, just show her this very post you’ve made. You’ve already written down your thoughts, only thing left to do is show it to her. Just go "Hey, have you heard about this site? You can ask questions to the opposite sex on here. It's cool. See? I asked this question earlier." Then show her the computer screen of this question you asked. Good luck.

[RavVid]

More than a handful is a waste and I want breasts to be cupable. It is a frequent question on GAG but it doesn't seem to help saying that. Another guy asked how he could make his girlfriend feel better in having small boobs; it didn't seem to matter how much he assured her he loved her size.

I think we are better off chatting up such a girl normally and leave it till she says she hasn't got much up top before confessing to that is why we were drawn to her.

[electromagnetic]

Well good, cause some of us are build like cereal boxes. Flat.

[JTinSC1981]

And some of us love you anyway.

[Twalli]

If you prefer small boobs like I do, just ask her out. She isn't going to say no because she has small boobs. Every girl I asked out had small boobs. Nobody found it weird that I found them attractive (Although one thought I wanted to date her to get closer to her roommate, I was actually friends with her roommate to get closer to her).

[BlondieGirl_]

“You’re my type”


Totally get it, I don’t like big muscles as a straight girl yet guys seem to love it. I think it’s gross lol

[lastlyfound]

You prefer slim men?

[Fireguy17]

yeppers.
I never had a boob fetish, so I'm just fine with smaller ones.
For me bigger is not better.
In fact just the opposite.

[OfMiceandMen]

Nothing wrong with smaller breasts. I like brown boobies too!

Here's a beautiful pair of brown boobies.

[JTinSC1981]

Dude, do NOT go up to a girl and say "Hey, I know most guys hate you because you have small tits but I happen to like that. Wanna have dinner with me on Friday?"

Ask her out. Do not tell her why, ever.

[strateguy632]

you are in trouble because she will assume you "prefer minors" so you need to be more specific, "yours are the size i prefer".

[stratford]

I love tiny boobs too, especially with puffy nipples.

In terms of your date - what does her boob size need to be mentioned or come into it at all, unless she raises the topic?

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Yeah. Every guy has their favorite boob size.

[JacobJordan]

Prefer whatever you want mate. Just know it isn't for everyone

[DaBiggestBird]

Small is understandable but none? I don’t know sounds a bit sus in a way… That’s like a lion saying, “I’ll eat an ass but not a zebra”

[OddBeMe]

I find a lot of that shit goes out of the window when you find the person. Her boob size or any other preference kinda fades away.

[12karen]

It's your preference, I see no prob with liking tiny boobs

[msc545]

Yeah it's okay. I prefer a small breasts myself. Large breasts make me think of cows and it's not attractive.

[jeremy_09]

I like small boobs. Just ask her out the way you would ask out any girl.

[gorydetails]

I don’t know about no boobs, but I like small perkies.

[RedInnocent69]

Absolutely. Sometimes the flat-chested girls are the hottest. Just look at Keira Knightly.

[Anonymous]

Hey, if you like little girl bodies, creepy AF but whatever.

[Anonymous]

My preference is small or medium. Honestly I think most guys are that way.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Can’t you just tell a woman’s breast size without even having to ask?

[Cutegirl06]

Of course it is!! Why wouldn't it be?

[sage2021]

Anything more than a mouthful is a waste. Right?

[ProbablyClueless]

Why wouldn't it be okay?

[gorkemmm]

ahaha I like you

[Anonymous]

I agree massive breasts are disgusting

[Wise4myage]

It’s fine in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, you can go golfing together.😆

[smd_5545]

That's good. All choices are okay.

[Anonymous]

Whatever floats your boat

[legalboxers]

no shame on that