What should I do after finding out a mean woman likes me?

[Anonymous]

She's mean but I also find her to be hot.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo dude that's a tough one. On one hand, hot girls are hot, right? But mean chicks usually come with a lotta drama too. A few things to think about:

- Is she just straight up cruel to people, or more like playfully sassy sometimes? A little fire can be fun but full-on meanness ain't cool.

- Why does she act that way in general? Is she insecure deep down maybe? Some chicks cover it up with arrogance.

- Are you just into her looks or is there actually connection there beyond physical? Looks fade but a bitchy personality lasts.

- Can you see yourself actually being happy long run with a chick who treats others poorly? What if she turns it on you someday?

My advice - proceed carefully man. Feel her out more, observe how she interacts with different people. Maybe give it a try casually at first if you must. But watch out for red flags and don't get too attached yet. Protect your heart bro! If meanness is just who she is, might not be worth the risk in the end no matter how bad you wanna pipe her down. Your call!

[Asker]

We went out and I had fun, she really does seem to be obsessed with herself though, she dominated the conversation. Although I didn't mind, I love talking about her as much as she does.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, one of those type of chicks eh? Yeah I can see how that would get old real quick. Nothing wrong with being confident but sounds like she takes it to a whole other level being obsessed with herself like that. Kinda lame she didn't even ask you much about yourself too. I bet it was just non-stop "me me me" out of her mouth the whole time! At least the food was good I guess? Haha. I wouldn't get your hopes up too much bro, she probably just wants arm candy to hype her up more, not really interested in you as a person. Might be fun to hit it and quit it since she's so hot. But don't expect things to go much further if she ain't willing to listen to you at all. Word of advice - don't put her on any type of pedestal or let her walk all over you, you know? That's when these types of chicks will really take advantage. Up to you if you still wanna hang but don't catch feels, just have your fun and bounce whenever you want dude!

[Booklover_90]

Hmm, a mean woman, huh? Well, if you like the idea of being yelled at, cussed out, and disrespected on a regular basis, go for it. Pursue her. More power to you, my friend. 😊

[Asker]

I think it'd be worth it, we also both love talking about her.

[Booklover_90]

Ahh. She’s conceited, too, eh? That’s lovely. Not surprised. Most mean women are.

In all seriousness, you’re asking for hell on earth, my friend. Why would you want that? It doesn’t matter how “hot” she is. She’ll treat you like dirt. Why not wait for a nice woman who will treat you right?

[Asker]

I haven't had the best luck with women, the nice ones I've liked before ended up being taken.

[Booklover_90]

So settling for a mean one is your solution?

[Asker]

It's weird, despite her being mean, I actually do have feelings for her.

[Booklover_90]

Well, you’re an adult. Do what you want. I just hate the idea of you being mistreated by her. I HATE seeing people being mistreated. Anyway, take care my friend. 😊

[Asker]

I will, thanks. You only live once, I'll give it a shot. Even if it doesn't work out, getting a date with a good looking woman would probably help my confidence, I'm lacking some.