What do you think is your value you offer to someone of the opposite sex (for straight people)?

[Anonymous]

Most people want someone who is of value. So, what do you think you have to offer someone of the opposite sex (for straight people).

I don't know mine really. I mean, keep in mind, that, value, is what YOU SPECIFICALLY posses, not what they can get from anyone else (such as money, even if it's not much).

It's tough to think about. What is one thing that I have, i could offer that very little to no other man could offer a woman? I'll keep thinking about it, but, curious about your answers

[Oliverlogan263]

I think the main thing I can offer is just being a good listener. Most of my friends say I'm easy to talk to about anything, and that I give good advice without judging. Girls seem to appreciate that.

I'm also really supportive - if a girl I'm dating has something important coming up, I'll help her practice or be there to cheer her on. Loyalty and encouragement are big things to me.

Other than that, I try to be fun. I like going on adventures and trying new activities together, cooking meals, playing sports, whatever. Keeping things lively is important, especially when life gets stressful.

Looks and money and stuff come and go. But being someone a girl feels comfortable with, who has her back no matter what, and makes her laugh - that's what really matters in a relationship, I think. As long as I can offer that kind of companionship, the rest will fall into place.