Is it a dealbreaker if your partner finds other people more physically attractive than you?

[Anonymous]

Like for example, if you are a man dating a woman and they think Henry Cavill or Chris Hemsworth are hotter than you.

Or if you are a woman dating a man and they think Jessica Alba or Scarlett Johansson are prettier than you…

Etc.

Thoughts?

[Apple1996]

Definitely would be a deal breaker especially if he was simping for celebrities like that. Fr some loser shit

[Anonymous]

It would be for me

[DishLady]

So if they like ACTORS... no, why is THAT a dealbreaker? I love watching Henry Cavill or Chris Hemsworth ib a big screen. Doesn't mean I want to hop a plane to their next set to meet them (or "meet+" 🤭🤭🤭). It's like looking at a statue in a museum or a painting or something...

If it's someone in real life and she's comparing you, THAT is a dealbreaker...

[Asker]

@dishlady I mean yeah they are actors but they are still real people that she finds more attractive than her partner…

[DishLady]

If Chris Hemsworth is in front of me and I grab his ass while I'm with my man we have a problem. If he's just Thor or whomever on a big screen we're in a theater full o people watching his ass... and it's a non-issue.

Similarly, if Johansson was in front of my man and he asked to motorboat her... we'd have an f-ing problem -- multiple bc she actually likes to sue people -- but if she's buttering up Captain America on the big screen... objectively I can't blame my man for looking. That chick's got nice boobs. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Don't be so touchy... It's a NON-ISSUE.

[Asker]

@dishlady my issue is I’m delusional and I like to convince myself that I’m the most attractive man on planet earth so it kinda ruins my fantasy if a woman openly admits she finds someone hotter than me

[Avicenna]

Celebrities she'd never have contact with shouldn't concern you. And there's always people she finds more attractive, but that doesn't mean she's going to cheat with them.

[Asker]

@avicenna nah I need to be the most attractive man to her…it’s not gonna work otherwise lol

[Avicenna]

If that's a requirement, you're going to lose out on a lot of gfs

[Asker]

@avicenna fine by me. I need to keep up my delusion.

[Anonymous]

It depends how mature and secure in themselves they are. a lot of women that lust after Liam Hemsworth hate themselves. They desire a guy like that because they think it gives them value. Like if they are with a super attractive guy it somehow makes them less unattractive. Of course these women can't typically land that level of guy so they settle to be a side piece or just a roll.

Don't get confused there's nothing wrong with healthy attraction. My wife says she pretends I'm Hugh Jackman when we have sex. Which I'm cool with because that's friggin Wolverine!😆

[Anonymous]

some things are just objectively true unfortunately and it's a lose-lose situation either way

is Lauren Sanchez not suppose to find Leonardo Di Caprio more handsome than their own spouse Leonardo Di Caprio

[Berethor]

No, it normal, those men are good looking, as long ad she don't have sex with any other man it don't matter.

[jahaims]

No lmfao. Obviously I'm not the most attractive person in existence

[Asker]

In my head I am…so that’s why it’d be a dealbreaker for me cause it’d ruin my delusion