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These questions are so hard to answer because there’s no happy medium lol. If he was mite attractive than me then I’d be afraid he’d cheat and if he was less attractive than me then I’d have to deal with his insecurities. The question then is, do I want to deal with my own insecurities or his insecurities? Hmm...
I honestly don't care as long as I find them attractive
More. That unfortunately limits me to to only 98.75% of women.
I hope to god she's more attractive than I am!
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It doesn't matter to me. There are a lot more important qualities to me than whether he's less or more attractive than me. If we click, have the same values, enjoy and love each other, and are attracted to each other in general, that's all that matters. It's not a competition to me.
I want my partner to be more attractive to elevate my status and make me feel accomplish in appearance to the world. I want to be the nerdy guy who scored a hot wifey. Not model sexy. But sexy librarian girl next door sexy.
Even if your partner is less attractive than you, it doesn't mean they wouldn't be a magnet for others
I don't care if i see her beautiful and attractive, because i see being attractive is a part of many parts of my partner, we will live together so i need her to be smart and helpful and can understand what i'm talking about, i remember my ex girlfriend was telling me that i'm attractive more than her and i was replying that's not true because i see that smartness and and shape and style and character all of them make people attractive for me, not just being sexy or in shape only will make me say that's an attractive girl.
To me it doesn’t matter. I am confident in myself and I don’t think that it would bother me if I wasn’t the most attractive one. Plus I’m a pretty attractive woman so to have a partner who is more attractive than me would be a blessing. Ironically I was with a guy who i personally felt was more attractive than any other guy. He had height, a big thing, a deep voice, and just a bunch of masculine qualities that looked sexy to me. Other people, including my own mom, told me that I was out of his league but I honestly didn’t see it. I felt that we were equally good looking. To me he was attractive because he wasn’t trying to be, he just was. I didn’t think many other men could top that no matter how they dressed or how attractive they physically were
Um i dont really know how to judge attractiveness when comparing different genders. But equally attractive is good enough. I dont get insecure because he is really loyal to both religion and relationship. Ik people might get sceptical whenever people say that, but I've known him enough to say he is loyal.
"More' attractive is subjective, so how can you really answer this question? Just because someone believes they are more or less attractive than their partner, that doesn't make it an objective fact. Lots of women think that Charlie Hunnam or Tom Hardy's girlfriend/wives are less attractive, but that doesn't make it true...
Less. My prevuous boyfriend was less atractive and always feared losing me. He didn't dare think of cheating. My current boyfriend is maybe slightly more attractive (has a lot of attebtion from other ladies) and it seems that he doesn't worry aboit losing me since he has so many other possible options if we dont work out. Being that he's attractive he has a lot of women that want his attention and I feel like i have to compete for it sometimes. I worry about losing him
I dont think there is a real scale for how attractive one person is bc everyone sees it different... some think they're trash but for others they can be a gold nugget... also you can think you are a diamond but others could see you as a potatoe...
I don’t think good relationships are based on that. It’s mutual attraction from multiple levels.
Physical, emotional, good sense a humor. If you’re in competition with your mate that’s just gonna lead to strife. But it if works for you...
Less attractive... but that's only because looks isn't the most important factor I go for in guy anymore.. but when I'm in love with someone I tend to see them through rose colored glasses so they end up being attractive to me anyway... if that makes sense😂
How do you evaluate what the Attraction level is?
Is it not enough to have feelings and "be attracted" to the other one?
More. I'm not attracted to 6,5/10 men. I like them from 8 and higher only.
Funny that society bashes women for such standards, but when a guy says that he wants a kind and beautiful girlfriend nobody cares
I have no way of even knowing whether she is more or less attractive than I am, nor do I care. I just want to be attracted to her, and the more, the better.
If you get dumped by attractive partner you can become insecure. If you get dumped by unattractive partner your ego gets hurt. The only kind of partner I want who would love me who I am and stay with me forever.
I don't compare my looks to my partners.
I just have to be attracted to you.
It’s more about her sanity & self-esteem. Give me a confident, sane 5 over a nutty 10.
Maybe less. I like attractive guys but it can make me insecure. Also when I’m dating and the guy isn’t as attractive as me, I know if I ever left I’d have the upper hand in moving on.
Can I choose slightly more attractive? Too attractive and it becomes a thing where I am worried I am not keeping up or other girls hit on him.
It used to be less but then I realized I was misjudging my level of attractiveness and then I stopped caring!
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