Do you prefer your partner to be more attractive than you or less attractive than you?

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stardust101 · Accepted Answer

These questions are so hard to answer because there’s no happy medium lol. If he was mite attractive than me then I’d be afraid he’d cheat and if he was less attractive than me then I’d have to deal with his insecurities. The question then is, do I want to deal with my own insecurities or his insecurities? Hmm...

QueenTanya · Accepted Answer

I honestly don't care as long as I find them attractive

Liam_Hayden · Accepted Answer

More. That unfortunately limits me to to only 98.75% of women.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I hope to god she's more attractive than I am!

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

It doesn't matter to me. There are a lot more important qualities to me than whether he's less or more attractive than me. If we click, have the same values, enjoy and love each other, and are attracted to each other in general, that's all that matters. It's not a competition to me.

Apope16 · Answer

I want my partner to be more attractive to elevate my status and make me feel accomplish in appearance to the world. I want to be the nerdy guy who scored a hot wifey. Not model sexy. But sexy librarian girl next door sexy.

Desconhecida · Answer

Even if your partner is less attractive than you, it doesn't mean they wouldn't be a magnet for others

wkozak · Answer

I don't care if i see her beautiful and attractive, because i see being attractive is a part of many parts of my partner, we will live together so i need her to be smart and helpful and can understand what i'm talking about, i remember my ex girlfriend was telling me that i'm attractive more than her and i was replying that's not true because i see that smartness and and shape and style and character all of them make people attractive for me, not just being sexy or in shape only will make me say that's an attractive girl.

Anonymous · Answer

To me it doesn’t matter. I am confident in myself and I don’t think that it would bother me if I wasn’t the most attractive one. Plus I’m a pretty attractive woman so to have a partner who is more attractive than me would be a blessing. Ironically I was with a guy who i personally felt was more attractive than any other guy. He had height, a big thing, a deep voice, and just a bunch of masculine qualities that looked sexy to me. Other people, including my own mom, told me that I was out of his league but I honestly didn’t see it. I felt that we were equally good looking. To me he was attractive because he wasn’t trying to be, he just was. I didn’t think many other men could top that no matter how they dressed or how attractive they physically were

xCherryKizz · Answer

Um i dont really know how to judge attractiveness when comparing different genders. But equally attractive is good enough. I dont get insecure because he is really loyal to both religion and relationship. Ik people might get sceptical whenever people say that, but I've known him enough to say he is loyal.

xyz94 · Answer

"More' attractive is subjective, so how can you really answer this question? Just because someone believes they are more or less attractive than their partner, that doesn't make it an objective fact. Lots of women think that Charlie Hunnam or Tom Hardy's girlfriend/wives are less attractive, but that doesn't make it true...

1231prncss · Answer

Less. My prevuous boyfriend was less atractive and always feared losing me. He didn't dare think of cheating. My current boyfriend is maybe slightly more attractive (has a lot of attebtion from other ladies) and it seems that he doesn't worry aboit losing me since he has so many other possible options if we dont work out. Being that he's attractive he has a lot of women that want his attention and I feel like i have to compete for it sometimes. I worry about losing him

DamnSam · Answer

I dont think there is a real scale for how attractive one person is bc everyone sees it different... some think they're trash but for others they can be a gold nugget... also you can think you are a diamond but others could see you as a potatoe...

OddBeMe · Answer

I don’t think good relationships are based on that. It’s mutual attraction from multiple levels.
Physical, emotional, good sense a humor. If you’re in competition with your mate that’s just gonna lead to strife. But it if works for you...

shalala33 · Answer

Less attractive... but that's only because looks isn't the most important factor I go for in guy anymore.. but when I'm in love with someone I tend to see them through rose colored glasses so they end up being attractive to me anyway... if that makes sense😂

David86 · Answer

How do you evaluate what the Attraction level is? Is it not enough to have feelings and "be attracted" to the other one?

Inneedofusername · Answer

More. I'm not attracted to 6,5/10 men. I like them from 8 and higher only.
Funny that society bashes women for such standards, but when a guy says that he wants a kind and beautiful girlfriend nobody cares

Anonymous · Answer

I have no way of even knowing whether she is more or less attractive than I am, nor do I care. I just want to be attracted to her, and the more, the better.

Hazelstar · Answer

If you get dumped by attractive partner you can become insecure. If you get dumped by unattractive partner your ego gets hurt. The only kind of partner I want who would love me who I am and stay with me forever.

Dinklex3 · Answer

I don't compare my looks to my partners. I just have to be attracted to you.

hahahmm · Answer

It’s more about her sanity & self-esteem. Give me a confident, sane 5 over a nutty 10.

victoriaxoxo · Answer

Maybe less. I like attractive guys but it can make me insecure. Also when I’m dating and the guy isn’t as attractive as me, I know if I ever left I’d have the upper hand in moving on.

tara987 · Answer

Can I choose slightly more attractive? Too attractive and it becomes a thing where I am worried I am not keeping up or other girls hit on him.

OldTimeFlicksChick · Answer

It used to be less but then I realized I was misjudging my level of attractiveness and then I stopped caring!

texturesurprise · Answer

I like really attractive men, but if they have vain pillow princess attitudes. I’ll want nothing to do with them.

ankitrmishra5476 · Answer

More attractive or less attractive doesn't matters really if he/she is Ur partner it means u r in love with him/her and thus he/she is always attractive for u

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I simply prefer to be 'attracted' to them. It is not a competition.

neptune88 · Answer

He isn't but you're his woman, he should be the one responsible for the bills or if you insist he can take a small percent out of your alimony to pay half the bill.

Luv2BRealExotic13 · Answer

I prefer us to be cute together so myself nor other people aren’t confused by our coupling.

MrHopper · Answer

Well i always been the ugly one in all my relationships, so i guess.. more?

sawno · Answer

More attractive than me if she doesn't mind it herself.

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

I mean he’s cuter than me for sure. Not sure how to feel about it

ariadneR · Answer

I think my partner is more attractive than me. I'm not insecure or anything like that, I just think he's more attractive

angelface8 · Answer

Equally attractive as me. I don't wanna feel like I have to vie for his attention.

lewray23 · Answer

Only thing I care about is if there willing to spend time with me who cares about how you both look as long as your happy who cares

kittylicking694u · Answer

Physical attraction is very important but the love that is generated when you together that's the most important thing

TonyBologna25 · Answer

Would like to be around the same level of attractiveness. I think it’s important to stay in your league for a lot of reasons.

khalibe · Answer

One of the best feelings in the world is dating a girl out of your league, you will see yourself trying harder😝

Anonymous · Answer

I'd prefer for my partner to think I am more attractive than she is while at the same time I think she is more attractive than I am.

Melshmallow046 · Answer

I should be equal, or at least both people in the relationship should feel it is.

DiegoO · Answer

? If you are really attracted to someone you generally think that person is more attractive than you.

Jerre · Answer

Just to be nice looking, not necessarily more or less than myself

constantine15 · Answer

Less, so there’s a less chance of her cheating on me.

winterfox10 · Answer

I would prefer a woman who is more attractive, but I suppose it's not that important.

MonicaTessler · Answer

Equally attractive because otherwise Id feel out of place...

Pejtu · Answer

I would choose the same level or less  Less problems

ask4any · Answer

Doesn't matter. As long as I we find each other attractive

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

It’s impossible for someone to be less attractive than me.

GreatnessBack · Answer

I mean I'm a good looking guy so yes, more attractive than me.

Agem123 · Answer

Umm, I don't know. Me and my partner, we're both attractive

Mrblooo · Answer

I think it really dosent matter as long as your attracted to the person. but I would prefer more attractive

Tslaveee · Answer

Men want more attractive  Women want less attractive  Men ultimately marry closer to their level

little_bird1 · Answer

I don't care about that.

valsaie · Answer

yes attractive so they won’t leave me

bonniebaby19 · Answer

less attractive than me so girls dont hit on him

trishhhxx · Answer

I don't care - they're mine.

happyhedgehog · Answer

I think about the same as me

Mexicoman101 · Answer

More, but not much more.

vald9inches · Answer

As long as i am attracted in some way

Anonymous · Answer

I hope he is more attractive than I am

Wewladdy · Answer

About as attractive if not a little less tbh.

Iron_Man · Answer

Less I like being top dog of the relationship

zagor · Answer

More attractive. I wouldn't fuck me.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Equally attractive to me. 😜😎

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