Dating

Should I reach out to this woman I used to date to tell her to stop bashing me online and stop mistreating my friend who is her co-worker?

Back in March, I ended things with a woman I met on Hinge. Long story, short: We went on 10 dates over the course of 3 weeks. She kept embarrassing me in public, violating my boundaries, and wasn’t a good listener. So I decided to end it.

Since then, she’s made a couple of negative posts about me on Instagram and has been acting weird around my friend who is her co-worker. For instance, they attended an event at the office welcoming the new summer interns. My friend introduced himself to one of the interns and when she heard him say his name, she sighed deeply and quickly moved to the other side of the room to talk to someone else. My friend said that she kept looking at him and pointing. Then when the event ended, she walked as close to the wall as possible to avoid him. Another time, she sat right next to him being nosy.

I feel for my friend having to put up with her antics at work. She removed me as a follower and unfollowed when we stopped talking, but her profile is public and I saw one of the bashing posts on my explore page. She’s 26 acting like she’s 6. I want to reach out to her to tell her to stop these antics, but I’m afraid that’ll invite unnecessary chaos into my life. It’s been 4 months since I ended it, she needs to get over me. We talked for 5 weeks total and only went on dates the last 3 of those 5 weeks. For the short time we spent getting to know each other, I feel like she should be over me by now.

Should I reach out to this woman I used to date to tell her to stop bashing me online and stop mistreating my friend who is her co-worker?
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