Why do people question why I go so long without a girlfriend if I’m not good looking?

[Anonymous]

So my first girlfriend wasn’t until 29 and the thing is I thought between my poor social skills and the general fact I’m just hideous that that would be enough but nope some people didn’t understand why I couldn’t find someone

[TonyV]

Then become good looking, if you want a girl put in some work, it takes work. They aren't going to knock on your front door while you hide in your house telling yourself you're weird and ugly.

Hit the gym get in shape, even if your face is weird or something being in shape will make you more appealing. Get a hair that looks good on you and compliments or highlights your good facial features, not the trendy cut, not the cut you want, the cut that works best with your looks, improve your wardrobe. And finally, start looking for girls in the right place for you, if your kind of a dork go were the dorky girls are like a comic book store or a place with dnd, magic the gathering etc., if you like Frisbee golf try to strike up a conversation there, if you like dogs take your dog to the dog park and let him be your wingman, you don't have to go to bars, clubs or tinder.

[Asker]

I have tried l that

[TonyV]

Exercise isn't something you try once, getting in shape isn't a fix, you don't work out till you look good and then just stop and stay that way, no exercise is a live style, if you want the nice body you will have to keep exercising to keep it.

Look it's a one or the other scenario, either you can put in the work to get a girl or you can be lazy, but if you choose to be lazy you don't get to complain that you don't have a girl.

[Anonymous]

because we live in a superficial society that denies being superficial yet continues to judge others due to immutable characteristics

and funny how society tells you not to judge who are 30, unmarried and without kids because she's a strong, independent woman

but they'll judge a 25 year old virgin guy and make baseless assumptions about him (most of which is meant to make him out to be worse)

[normalice]

People generally assume most men passed 25 or so have learned they can easily get a girlfriend if they just do the bare minimum to curb their narcissistic inclinations.

[Asker]

I’m not narcissistic at all I don’t approach I don’t really do anything

[Asker]

I never really even had female friends