Why do people think I don’t want to have a girlfriend if I don’t because I’m ugly, broke and short?

[Anonymous]

My friends and family are wondering why I don’t want to get a girlfriend when in fact I’m too unattractive and everyone rejects me. I get no Tinder dates. The only women who like me are some (unattractive) sluts.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang dude, that sucks people are giving you a hard time about not having a girlfriend yet. Don't even sweat what your friends and family say - getting a girl is hard for all of us at our age.

First of all, don't be so hard on yourself. So what if you're not the tallest or whatever - that doesn't define you as a person. There's more to you than just looks. And who cares if you don't have tons of money yet - when we're young, none of us do!

Maybe Tinder isn't your best bet. A lot of girls there just want hookups I think. Have you tried putting yourself out there more in real life? Join some clubs or sports teams to meet girls with similar interests. Or what about asking your friends to set you up with friends of theirs?

Just put yourself out there and be confident in who you are. Once you find the right girl, she'll like you for you, not cause of how you look or how much cash you got. Don't lose hope - there's someone for everyone. And don't focus so much on what others say - you do you. It'll happen when it's meant to happen.

[Anonymous]

There are millions of "ugly" guys dating millions of "ugly" girls. Most of them are actually average you didn't post a picture, I assume you are average. This sounds like a convenient excuse for what is probably a lack of self-confidence. You want a girlfriend but you are afraid of trying and getting rejected again.

[Asker]

No. I’m actually less than average, trust me 😂 I’m trying, tomorrow I should have a date. Guess what? She ghosted me. She is average too 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Why don't you post a picture of yourself?

[Asker]

Because I don’t want to post a picture here. You’re trying to convince me I’m not ugly? 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

I am questioning that statement and i don’t accept your self-evaluation as infallible.

[Nikki1989]

I stopped reading at Tinder. No more needs to be said.

[Asker]

Haha