Are women older than 30 ever attracted to men in their early 20’s? ?

[ale2003]

Most women like or prefer older men while on a rare occasion they prefer younger. Is it normal in 2024 for younger men and older women to date?

[Account]

Early 20s is way too young for me.
I don't like older men though.
I prefer people close to my age or slightly younger.
26-27 and above I could consider it if I really liked them.

[ale2003]

but let’s if someone in early 20’s is hot and looked older or something? 26 isn’t much more

[Account]

You just proved my point. My opinion has nothing to do with there appearance. There are objectively attractive people that I know. Do I like or want to date or be intimate with or be in a relationship with any of them? Absolutely NOT. It doesn't work that way for me. And early 20s with mid to late 20s is a huge difference.

[Account]

their appearance *

[ale2003]

hmm could be, im glad u shared your opinion. early 20’s and mid 20’s thing depends on each person. Not everyone matures the same.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Sorry. Not me. I teach young men and to me they are still boys (younger than 25) They don't even know when I talk about some old IT gadgets. It'd take too much time to explain what my world when I was at his age was like... as a couple, it's impossible. Plus, I don't think they'd want a long-term commitment either.

[Anonymous]

Yes. When she hits her "slut phase". All women typically around 40. But sometime as early as 30. Once they hit the wall go into a slot phase to prove to themselves they "still got it". So they'll sleep with random young men just to prove to herself that's still possible.

[Apple1996]

Im not over 30 but I do prefer men my same age or younger

[ale2003]

oh damn, im very glad to hear that. What do u think about 21 year olds😅😂

[Apple1996]

A bit young but I would maybe consider it if I was single

[ale2003]

im not too young bro i have facial hair and im 6ft2😭😂 6 years isn’t much of a gap but i can understand ur view

[Paulalove98]

I’m in my mid 20s but I’ve always liked younger guys, probably always will. My boyfriend is 19 and I’m 25.

[ale2003]

oh that is very nice, i would like to hear more about your situation, im 21 by the way.

[frenchgirl123]

For myself yeah, it is kinda weird as I feel guilty though. But for other women my age, as long as it's consensual then cool.

[ale2003]

why do you feel guilty though? It is completely normal and natural. I like older women and i don’t feel guilty…

[frenchgirl123]

I don't know, I think guys in their 20s are more attractive, and it does help I also look like I'm in my 20's so a double-edged sword.

[Kelley1]

Obviously, a few women are because occasionally you read about female teachers having sex with their male middle school and high school students.

[ale2003]

oh yes you are right, i am still in contact with my teacher from high school. I was 18 and she was in the mid 30’s… We used to flirt but absolutely nothing serious. We just catch up from time to time.

[Kelley1]

I am certain that limiting it to flirting is far more common.

[ale2003]

Yeah, sometimes you wonder what would happen if you tried more than flirting but still have to limit yourself to flirting…

[Kelley1]

I am certain the young male students would be willing but they don't dare unless the teacher initiates it and most teachers will not jeopardize their career.

[ale2003]

yeah but im out of high school now so i guess that wouldn’t jeopardise her position i guess.

[luvstoned4him]

I do from time to time but they all disappoint me with their immaturity

[ale2003]

could be. i have dated numerous women older than me and we had a pretty good time. We broke up because of some other issues not related to the age gap or immaturity. Do u mind me asking what made you attracted to them?

[luvstoned4him]

@ale2003 dm

[ale2003]

could u dm me first please since im XP1?

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker ok

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is 27 (so he's not in his early 20s, but he is in his 20s). I'm 41, so I'm quite a bit older than him. Also, I'm super attracted to him

[ale2003]

hot! i would love to know more about u though

[Opinion Owner]

OK. What do you want to know?

[ale2003]

like is there any maturity gaps or some other barriers?

[Opinion Owner]

No. That's a huge reason why our relationship works out despite the age gap. We're very compatible in terms of maturity and life goals

[ale2003]

oh nice, im very jealous of him because older women are so hot…

[anon1903]

I like younger guys. But I sadly cannot fulfill your request haha

[ale2003]

what kind of request hon?

[anon1903]

Nevermind

[ale2003]

please share.

[DeGoma]

It’s really based on maturity than looks and most of the time that sort of age gap whereby the woman is older is actually a much larger mental and emotional age gap

[ale2003]

could be, but again some men mature early. But of course it’s easy to see why it’s a turn off for some women.

[DeGoma]

Definitely, it’s not a one size fits all. Just generally speaking.

[ale2003]

personally i enjoy more the company of women older than me than women my age. And also the physical attraction is unreal and wild…

[PetiteMisSmooth546]

My mom was busy with a 20 year old not so long ago.

[Nikki1989]

Some are, but I don't know why.

[ale2003]

my guess maybe they need a break from older or “mature” guys and want some potential fun or something in that nature with someone younger. Im not really sure myself.

[IslaTheWitch]

not me, I prefer men over boys ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Boulemakh]

Maybe yeah.

[ale2003]

cool

[Pterodon]

Yes some cougars are