Are men interested in women over 30?

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Brutally honest answers please. I need as many votes as possible to allow me to effectively analyse this question. I’m currently 27, apparently in my prime. According to some men it’s harder to attract after 30 as basically romance is over.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's not the age as much as what they age represents. Guys know in general how judgmental women are. As we age we carry more baggage, women have seen more men and been in more relationships which means she's more likely to just judge you all the more. And on things YOU had nothing to do with. I always say "women judge a guy by every bad choice SHE'S ever made". This is why guys as they get older choose younger. YES youth is attractive. As you age your sexual marketability will diminish. But you will still be a woman. A guy will still want to sleep with you (as women find out). But the effort a guy will put forth to that end will be less.

Now understand I'm NOT saying a woman's value will EVER diminish. A good woman will ALWAYS be a good woman. But this is at the heart of the matter. a lot of women are NOT very good women and they find that out as the age. OR they didn't pick very good men and they find that out as they age. Because a smart guy NEVER let's go of a quality woman no matter how much Grey hair or wrinkles she gets. Because a quality woman will always have your back a smart guy know these types of women don't grow on trees.

asphaltrhymes · Accepted Answer

I think most women would be fine until 35. Likewise I'm 29 and I'd prefer to currently date only women 20 to 29. When I'm 35, if still single then I would say then I'll only date max 29 to 35 lol or 28 to 35 women, when I'm 35.
And then you can continue the math from there 😋😁

TenderFantasy · Accepted Answer

I'm 39 and I am in a relationship. People should be considering more than just age really. And how would THEY like it if they were judged based on something they had no control over? ! 😔 Pretty cruel if you asked me.

gothbxtch · Accepted Answer

yes, and guys who aren’t are not worth anyone’s time.

Levin · Answer

Some women was telling me that she had detected a decided, marked, less attraction once she hit 35 on her tinder. I pondered on it.

Women get a lot of attention in their late teens and 20s. Even in their 30s women probably still get a lot more attention than the average man.

So I do find it hard to be sympathetic.

In terms of raw biological sexual attraction, it's just impossible to compete with young women. Young women just fire up our loins like the ovens of a steam train. But as the anon below says, no decent man will let go of a quality woman.

Also, it's a shame he doesn't allow replies, because the "women judge a guy by every bad choice SHE'S ever made" is pure genius and I'm stealing it..

Anonymous · Answer

Anywhere outside Gag in the real world, of course they do... A woman in her late 20's and early 30's can still be attractive, if she takes care of herself. Nowadays a lot of women at 30 look younger than they did in the past, because they know how to take care of themselves, exercise, eat healthy, use good skincare products etc. It's just that this site is full of weirdos, creeps, sexists, misogynists and ageist that objectify and view women with prejudice and as pieces of meat

Anonymous · Answer

The brutally honest answer is that men way above your league will have sex with you, but those same men will not commit to you. You will be competing with younger, hotter, females that have much less baggage, who are less experienced and potentially more lighthearted. Few women understand the sheer power they have... until they no longer have it. You also need to bear in mind that an older man that looks after himself will have options of younger women. I'm in my late 40's and I've been approached by women from all age ranges and younger ones show interest. I was approached by a 21 year old some months ago but she thought I was in her age range. She was still interested after I told her my age. The older women seem oblivious to their competition. I prefer to remain single so am just giving you the info. I have nothing to gain here...

boombastik · Answer

Hell yes, I am. Older women are sexy af and they don't hit their sexual prime until late 30s-45 so they want to fuck all the time and plus they usually have their tubes tied or have a hysterectomy which my ex said about hers "I still have the playground, I just don't have all the equipment crowding it up!" Sign me up I said. I never liked younger women because they scraped my dick with their teeth. Don't worry, even ugly women can get dick when they want it. Hope that's truthful enough

Red_Arrow · Answer

First, for us older men, over 30 is still very young. It is only the weird guys you read about in the tabloids who are old but still hooking up with 20 year olds.

richardcory · Answer

Yes they are. Most people are most interested in partner near the same age. So there are lots of men in their 30s who are interested in women in their 30s

Some people may enjoy a hookup with some young "hot" person, but for a relationship, being similar ages tends to give you more in common

DextroShade · Answer

You have less options at 30 than you did at 20, but assuming you took care of yourself and didn't get fat, get a bunch of tats, get an STD, or become a baby momma you can still find a guy. He may not be your first choice but at 30 you aren't his first choice either.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Love is love & that is all that counts. I’m 41 & I would totally be interested in women over 30. As for me I just have to find a woman that would be interested in a wonderful individual over 40 like me.

Adam1978 · Answer

It's will get worse for you for every year that goes, it doesn't mean zero chance. if you have kids on top of that your chances are extremely limited and you shouldn't let any go you by.

runnerboy · Answer

I'm 17 so it is difficult to answer. I have seen and know plenty of hot women in their 30's

SingleGuy101 · Answer

I'm in my 40's. Can't stand women younger than me, 50's and 60's are way more fun.

ericclayton · Answer

Absolutely. Especially if you take good care of yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on your status and how pretty you are after 30. It's actually about looks, not age. A gorgeous 30 woman will beat a fugly 20-year-old.

Anonymous · Answer

Mature men are very interested. The rest, well they are still have the mentality of children and brainwashed ones at that.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

There are women 50 years old that are that beautiful!

John_Doesnt · Answer

Rich successful men: no. But guys who are financially struggling and unattractive sure, they'll take you. If they have to settle for you then you should be willing to settle for them.

Anonymous · Answer

Freshly baked bread is always best, but it can still be eaten and enjoyed after 2 or even 3 days.

kakaling · Answer

If she looks like an 18, yeah why not, it's even better than an 18.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Yes! Please don't talk about your past bullshit and I won't either! Also no kids.

Anonymous · Answer

Less so for a serious relationship and more so for casual fun. 23-25 is prime dating age for a woman.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course I am interested even in ones over 50, but not much more then that

LiamJHayden · Answer

I am and have been for several years.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Most men are. I am too.

Pohjolan · Answer

Men over 60 definitely.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

Not me.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Of course

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