Why is rejecting someone for height or baldness or d size not the same as rejecting someone for race, even though they are equally uncontrollable?

[Anonymous]

Even fat shaming is less acceptable than shaming someone for being bald or short, even though you can lose weight

[Lliam]

When it comes to romantic attraction, everyone has personal preferences. There is nothing shallow about that. People who say they don't care about looks are either virtue signaling or they are asexual or demisexual.

Nobody is obligated to overlook physical characteristics.

And having a skin, hair, ethnic or racial preference doesn't automatically make you a bigot. What if someone only likes Asians or Africans? It doesn't necessarily mean that they view other races as inferior.

The accusation of racism is always only pointed at Europeans.

As far as a preference for height, dick size, boob or butt size and shape, head or body hair or whatever, too bad.

Quasimodo may have been a nice guy, but he didn't have a "right" to romance. Nobody does.

[Asker]

@lliam yes he does because nobody deserves to die alone

[BetaBucks]

There's nothing wrong with having racial preferences. I definitely do. But if you're attracted to someone and won't date them just because of their race, it's a little different and actually is racist. Like, imagine you meet a hot chick and think she's Latina, but find out she's Indian and did a "nope, nevermind" with her. That's pretty racist. Not typically being attracted to Indian women is fine though.

[Asker]

@betabucks what makes racism worse than rejecting someone solely for their height…you can’t control either…

[BetaBucks]

Racism has further reaching implications. If you won't date someone only because of their race, that tells me that you would also discriminate against them in other ways. But someone not matching your looks preferences wouldn't be an indicator that you would discriminate against them in other parts of your life.

But, specifically about the dating side of things, it's not any worse to discriminate based on race or any other factors. It only matters when the discrimination carries over into other things.

[Razp_Sorbet]

They're all bad. Rejecting someone purely off their race is just racist. The rest is just kinda shitty of you.

[BetaBucks]

Have you ever dated a bald guy that was under 5 feet tall? Or a guy with a micropenis? I don't think it's fair to call women "shitty" for having certain standards.

[Razp_Sorbet]

@BetaBucks can't say I've had the opportunity to 🙃

[BetaBucks]

Lol I wonder why 😂

[Tim2nice]

You’re daft. I’m not attracted to Asian women. Am I obligated to date them?

[Razp_Sorbet]

@Tim2nice no you're never obligated to date anyone obviously. But you're saying if an Asian woman was absolutely perfect in every way for you, you wouldn't date her because she's Asian? Or is it just you've never met an Asian woman you've been attracted to?

[Tim2nice]

I’m talking specifically about oriental women, you know, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, etc. I’ve seen hundreds if not the thousands of them but I’m just not attracted to them. I am attracted to Indian women, certain black women, and most white women. I can’t help who I’m attracted to and who I’m not.

[Razp_Sorbet]

@Tim2nice I'm aware. My comment still stands

[Asker]

@razp_sorbet why is racism any worse than height supremacy or size discrimination or bald shaming? You are still rejecting someone based solely on something they can’t control…

[Razp_Sorbet]

All of them are bad. I'm not defending any of them. Discriminating because of any of these things make you a shallow person

[Asker]

@razp_sorbet so you would date a guy shorter than you, if they were bald and had a very small dick?

[Tim2nice]

And broke?

[Razp_Sorbet]

Quadruple threat! I've dated a guy shorter than me before, baldness doesn't bother me either, small dick doesn't bother me either so long as he knows how to pleasure in other ways. Broke? Well that is dependant, are they able to take care of themselves? Do they have a job/ actively trying to get one?

[Asker]

@razp_sorbet kudos…you are one of the less shallow woman I’ve encountered online…unfortunately a vast majority of women aren’t like you it seems

[Tim2nice]

What about age? Would you someone much older than you? If not why?

[Razp_Sorbet]

@Tim2nice I wouldn't go more than 5 years at my current age. But that would depend. Mostly because I don't think I would have much in common or much relatability to someone much older.

[Tim2nice]

That’s bad. It’s age discrimination. Same as racial, ethnic, national, religious and political discrimination

[Razp_Sorbet]

@Tim2nice uh no. You're trying way too hard here

[Tim2nice]

I’m only using your logic.

[Razp_Sorbet]

@Tim2nice mm no you're not at all actually, you're missing very key things I've said.

[Tim2nice]

Discrimination is discrimination. You don’t get to decide what one finds more offensive

[Razp_Sorbet]

@Tim2nice see where i said "purely". Did I say I would absolutely not ever date someone JUST because of their age? The answer is no incase you are incapable of comprehension. I said it would depend.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Discrimination would be saying "I would never date a 30 year old I don't like them" that's just stupid.