Why is it empowering for women to reject a short man (under 6 feet), but it's sexist and fat phobic for a man to reject an obese woman?

[Anonymous]

Question says it all, even had a user say it's evil for a man to reject on weight cause it fluctuates. Talk about some mental gymnastics.

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6 mo

To that perverted person (pink) who commented nonsense bullshit and basically threatened me, or insinuated I'm doing this to shame someone.. Your comment was deleted.. And profile reported for harassment.

[Anemone978]

Anyone who rejects someone over minor things is a loser regardless of gender.. like if a guy is taller than you, what does it matter if he is a specific height? You are just making your own choices smaller..
As for men not liking fat women it is totally your call.. most men do not actually like fat women they just settle for them because they can't get better.. as I am a fat woman and never been able to get a guy I truly liked.. though that could also be because I self sabotage as well since I am insecure LOL

[arodriguez664]

I try not to comment on anything that can't be changed in 5 mins. It's a good rule to live by. Height has never mattered to me since I'm short anyway. My boyfriend is about my height and I love him dearly. Height does not make the man. Just as weight doesn't define a woman. My boyfriend doesn't mind that I'm chunky. I know not everyone is open to things that are outside of their preferences. But most people are kind of shitty anyway

[Asker]

Good way to be honestly

[coachTanthony]

Because it's simple biology for a woman to want a man who is taller. They don't have to use their brains on choosing a mate they just assume tall means provider and protector. Most find out when it's too late that it's just not the case at all.

[ken2023]

It's pure biology. Men are attracted to physically fit woman as it indicates the possibility of healthy offspring. Woman are attracted to taller men as it indicates safety ("he can protect me").

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm 5.2 feet, for me, every man is tall :D

But I can say that private preferences shouldn't be judged or discussed. I have a right to reject any guy. And you have a right to reject any woman. Period.

[Asker]

Agreed

[Asker]

Love your ID by the way.

[IslaTheWitch]

Thanks :)

[IslaTheWitch]

add me and write on priv, if you want.

[Asker]

Can do!

[provokeesmokee]

It isn't. Just sounds like you met someone fat who hates that about themselves, but finds it easier to take out on others instead of working on herself.

[Asker]

I would have to agree lol.

[desidoll]

This theory must be coming from heavier women themselves lol, just to guilt-trip the guys who rejected them.

[John_Cobretti]

I guess both are not wrong, everyone has preferences
But one thing to note is short man or woman has no control over their height unlike fat people

[Animegirl1993]

You are right on that

[Animegirl1993]

Can we message each other?

[strateguy632]

the problem is writing the reason on Facebook where you intend for friends but anyone can spread the screenshot like cancel culture.

just say you aren't my type. i am not feeling attracted.

[virtualwasp]

its not empowering to reject a guy. they are mean if you have used you to boost their ego

[Anonymous]

Men could reject women base on weight and woman could reject men base on height.

Who said you couldn't?

[Asker]

Because men get called fat phobic and sexist for it..

[Opinion Owner]

Who cares? You don't have to date a fat women if you don't want to. I don't care if I get called shallow for wanting to date a guy that's 6'4

[YAsQuen]

but every second bitch is fat and only every 200s man is 6'4

[Opinion Owner]

@YAsQuen then date a fat girl? I don't care. I'm dating a guy that's 6'4 for sure

[disgustingweebtrash]

Because the West is gynocentric, anything negative affecting women = bad anything negative affecting men = good

[leahzrc]

I rejected and ugly short guy and he told me he has done better anyway and that I could never do better than him but I already have 11 times

[Djaay]

So they can justify they're mouth with a so called protector regardless whether she's right or wrong.

[Twalli]

If she wants him, then she can lose weight. The ball is in her court, so to speak.

[nawtee_me]

Reject who you want to, it is called preferences

[Likethesky]

It’s not sexist and fatphobic for men to reject obese women. Don’t listen to haters

[BlackBeauty90]

Will you social rejects that constantly go on about height do an extremely simple task and Google the average height of men. It's 5'9". If women rejected men below 6 ft it'd be much more

[Asker]

Statistically women reject all but the top 5% of men. But hey, keep denying reality there.

[BlackBeauty90]

How is it reality, when reality proves the complete opposite of your whining.

[YAsQuen]

He is talking dating apps data. Which is about 40 percent of all dates nowadays (2020)

Dating apps are for people that have no luck finding partners in real life. Soooooo yeah.

Its actually 4.8 percent on dating apps now. 62% for women by the way.

[strateguy632]

dating apps many bother to specify if you not 6 feet don't contact me

[BlackBeauty90]

@YAsQuen If you believe dating apps data then you've got BIGGER problems than being less than 6'0" in height. Dating apps are by & large dumping grounds of people looking for cheap sex, etc.

[YAsQuen]

ya as i said its 40 percent of all dates in 2020. You can use ur brain and tell me ho high it i now. Also u can try to guess if the percentages go up or down for the younger generations...

[BlackBeauty90]

@YAsQuen You said on dating apps you uneducated twit.

[Anonymous]

Only the Israeli ones

[Opinion Owner]

Wrong poll

[Asker]

Lol all good