Why is it empowering for women to reject a short man (under 6 feet), but it's sexist and fat phobic for a man to reject an obese woman?

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Question says it all, even had a user say it's evil for a man to reject on weight cause it fluctuates. Talk about some mental gymnastics.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

Anyone who rejects someone over minor things is a loser regardless of gender.. like if a guy is taller than you, what does it matter if he is a specific height? You are just making your own choices smaller..
As for men not liking fat women it is totally your call.. most men do not actually like fat women they just settle for them because they can't get better.. as I am a fat woman and never been able to get a guy I truly liked.. though that could also be because I self sabotage as well since I am insecure LOL

arodriguez664 · Accepted Answer

I try not to comment on anything that can't be changed in 5 mins. It's a good rule to live by. Height has never mattered to me since I'm short anyway. My boyfriend is about my height and I love him dearly. Height does not make the man. Just as weight doesn't define a woman. My boyfriend doesn't mind that I'm chunky. I know not everyone is open to things that are outside of their preferences. But most people are kind of shitty anyway

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

Because it's simple biology for a woman to want a man who is taller. They don't have to use their brains on choosing a mate they just assume tall means provider and protector. Most find out when it's too late that it's just not the case at all.

ken2023 · Accepted Answer

It's pure biology. Men are attracted to physically fit woman as it indicates the possibility of healthy offspring. Woman are attracted to taller men as it indicates safety ("he can protect me").

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I'm 5.2 feet, for me, every man is tall :D But I can say that private preferences shouldn't be judged or discussed. I have a right to reject any guy. And you have a right to reject any woman. Period.

provokeesmokee · Answer

It isn't. Just sounds like you met someone fat who hates that about themselves, but finds it easier to take out on others instead of working on herself.

desidoll · Answer

This theory must be coming from heavier women themselves lol, just to guilt-trip the guys who rejected them.

John_Cobretti · Answer

I guess both are not wrong, everyone has preferences  But one thing to note is short man or woman has no control over their height unlike fat people

strateguy632 · Answer

the problem is writing the reason on Facebook where you intend for friends but anyone can spread the screenshot like cancel culture.  just say you aren't my type. i am not feeling attracted.

virtualwasp · Answer

its not empowering to reject a guy. they are mean if you have used you to boost their ego

Anonymous · Answer

Men could reject women base on weight and woman could reject men base on height.  Who said you couldn't?

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Because the West is gynocentric, anything negative affecting women = bad anything negative affecting men = good

leahzrc · Answer

I rejected and ugly short guy and he told me he has done better anyway and that I could never do better than him but I already have 11 times

Djaay · Answer

So they can justify they're mouth with a so called protector regardless whether she's right or wrong.

Likethesky · Answer

It’s not sexist and fatphobic for men to reject obese women. Don’t listen to haters

Twalli · Answer

If she wants him, then she can lose weight. The ball is in her court, so to speak.

nawtee_me · Answer

Reject who you want to, it is called preferences

BlackBeauty90 · Answer

Will you social rejects that constantly go on about height do an extremely simple task and Google the average height of men. It's 5'9". If women rejected men below 6 ft it'd be much more

Anonymous · Answer

Only the Israeli ones

Why is it empowering for women to reject a short man (under 6 feet), but it's sexist and fat phobic for a man to reject an obese woman?

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