Female contradiction #75: Turning down a girl because of her weight is fat shaming but turning down a guy because he's short is perfectly ok?

[Anonymous]

Guys can't even change their height. Girls can change their weight.

[Prettygurl12]

Weight can change. Height can't. However I see no issue with a guy turning a girl down for her weight.

I like tall guys. I said it. I would be offended, sure, but I would understand if a guy turned me down for my weight (except most likely it'd be because he found me too thin) because I would turn a guy down for his height.

[Xelebrum]

It's fine to turn down a guy for his height or weight as long as you aren't a hypocrite about it.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't mind if a guy turned me down for my height. Wouldn't that be the equivalent of a girl turning down a guy for his height?
Cuz you know, weight is a measurement for mass and height is a measurement for length and physically both kg and meter are independent SI units... One has nothing to do with the other -_-

[Asker]

Here's the thing: Women turn down guys because they're not tall all the time. Short guys have depressingly low chances with girls. Guys on the other hand will rarely turn down a girl because of her height. And even if a guy decides to turn down a girl because of her height, it's usually because of extremely abnormal heights. Meanwhile, only %15 of guys are over 6 foot tall, so girls who only want tall guys are just that much more vain and superficial.

[Opinion Owner]

I know, but weight is a more universal thing. Both women and men might not feel attracted to overweight people specially when they have a disproportionate fat distribution. Like a very big belly or butt.

[Asker]

I don't know about that. From what I can tell, men are more critical of fat women than women are of fat men. But even still, men don't place numeric standards on women like "I only want women who are under 130". Women on the other hand will say "I only want a man who's over 6'0"

[Eric644]

i don't think a man should turn you down for your height and i don't think a woman should turn down a man because of his height, height requirements are just shallow and people who have them lack education

[RJGraveyTrain]

There's no issue with turning a girl down because of her weight. Everyone is entitled to their physical preferences.

[TripleAce]

I must says Thats women at their finest moment. Todays day and age, she will act as if she's inferior and say please this and that, act cute to get attention then turn around and dig a knife right into you that spells E-Q-U-A-L-I-T-Y

[aficionado]

That girl was being a hypocrite, no question about that.

But it all comes down to preferences. If someone doesn't prefer people of certain heights or weights, there will be others who do. Not a big deal.

[mutedaisy]

If you aren't attracted to someone, there is nothing you can really do... I really dislike short guys. I've

[mutedaisy]

*I wasn't done answering the question*

Anyway, I have dated short guys and I know I am not attracted to their bodies. Sex would be miserable and so our relationship would fail. If you don't like fat girls, the same thing will happen. There is no shaming in this unless you talk shit about the persons body and degrade them.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Yeah, and you have no control over your height, but you do over your weight.

[kittykatbrat]

Both to me are relevant reasons to NOT date a person.

[Anonymous]

"What are the numerical digits that appear on the scale when you proceed to apply your weight into it" (onto it*) made me laugh out loud.

[Jessicocoa]

There's nothing wrong with turning someone down due to their weight or height. It's called having a preference.

[BertMacklinFBI]

hahaa I like how he went all technical. fuck 😂

[Octavius]

hashtag really?

[Asker]

It's not meant as a hashtag. It's meant as "Number 75"

[Octavius]

No the guy texting.

[Asker]

Oh ok