Why does he still have those pictures on his instagram?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend still has pictures of the dates him and his ex went on, on his social media? She’s not in any of the pictures it’s just the pictures of the events on his page?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh girl, that's a little strange that he still has those pictures up on his social media. Here's what I would think:

- Is he really fully over her if he can't let go of those memories? Leaving them up almost seems like he's not ready to fully close that chapter.

- Even if she's not in the pics, it's weird that you're dating him but he's leaving evidence of their past relationship up for everyone (including her!) to see.

- How would he feel if the tables were turned and you had pictures from past dates with exes still posted? He might not like it.

- It could potentially make you feel uncomfortable or question where his head is at emotionally. How often does he look at those pictures?

I would gently bring it up to him and just see what he says. Try not to accuse, but come from a place of wanting to understand. Pay attention to his reaction and answers. If he gets all defensive, that's not a good sign. He should be willing to make you feel secure by removing old relationship reminders if he's committed now. Trust your gut on this one, girl!

[Asker]

Yup I agree. I found messages of him texting his ex on instagram saying he still liked her and even proceeded to ask her to dinner. He stood her up and she then blocked him, he blocked her right back afterwards?

Yet why would you block someone back if you stood them up and if she already blocked you first?

[CuriousHubby]

If it suits the events then he is fine if the events not her. Guys don't remove events from Thier page just Thier exes

Talk with him about it and really just steal his phone and remove them. It's simpler

[rienna888]

Are they old pics or recently posted? If they're just old pics, they don't matter. I'd be more concerned if he took them down, means he's trying to get over her. But if it's recently, then you should be concerned. I personally don't delete old pics from my ex.

[OhLongJohnsoning]

Why does it matter?