What’s something that instantly makes you feel connected to someone?

[Jeffreyll]

[DishLady]

1. The way our eyes connect.
2. The ease with which we chat or open up to one another.
3. The way we smile at each other as conversation progresses.
4. Affirmations exchanged during our bonding process/quality time.

[bobalife]

The way they’re able to make me laugh a lot and vice versa
To feel at ease and natural being able to converse & joke
Sharing aligned values, interests, or perspectives
Mutual understanding and attentive listening
Exchange of positive affirmations

[bobalife]

And ability to open up with each other. What about you?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

That's quite a list here :D

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Although, I might say that this answer omits the word "instantly" in the original question, as I don't think anyone could tick the boxes of your list instantly 😏

[bobalife]

Such as your name, @Maybe_Maybe_not, but someone can try ;)

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

You know what, I didn't notice the vice versa in your list before, now that I am noticing it, it brings some food for thoughts on my table, I like it

[bobalife]

@Maybe_Maybe_not I'm glad you taken notice ;) I believe it's important to think about two people than just one person when it comes to connection or even a relationship.

[Nikki1989]

Connecting over things we both love.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Sharing the same thoughts, tastes or interests.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

W i t

[bobalife]

what a list you have there! :D LOL

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@bobalife hahaha Do you want my bullet list? I'm warning you, I'm using libreoffice, docx files can go to hell !

[bobalife]

@Maybe_Maybe_not hahaha bring it!!!

I am gonna hop on the shower due to 2 upcoming events today, but I’m looking forward to it!

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@bobalife Your patience has been rewarded:

I lied, there is no bullet list I'm monitoring. But... Wit is already a polysemic term when you think about it :)

[bobalife]

LMAO gasp, omgoodness... hzkxchkzhcxzc you're cheating! I want to hear about this imaginary bullet list that's polsemic hmph lolz

[bobalife]

11 hours laterrrruh... no bullet list : (

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@bobalife bobalife is upside-down 🙃 Though you may look for mysteries where there are none, your own bullet list represents, in a formalized manner, the unformalized rules, codes, conventions, ethics I'm following :)

[bobalife]

LOLLL!! maybe or maybe not, following the upside down Bobalife code of ethics to building connections, I like the sound of that 😜🤭

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@bobalife don't like it too much though, I'm gonna remind you about this immensity of water between us, even though internet makes it invisible, this water is very well alive lol

[bobalife]

Gasppp you got me all excited… but now you taken that away by water blocking?🤣🤣🤣 okay I won’t like it too much. Well I guess I can just doggy paddle my way to you…. And “connect” 🙃

I can’t swim, I might RIP as I doggy paddle, it’s your fault if I do, just sayin 😂

[smurfwrangler]

similar interests, values, etc