How do men choose who is the main chick and who is the side chick?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

Only guys’ that are selfish do shit like that. A good guy will only have a main chick that he stays loyal and faithful to chooses her the same way he wants her choosing him. If a girl is a side chick? He is just using her for sex and possible friendship , but he truly doesn’t love her , he just likes the convenience of her , if he truly loved his side chick? He would leave is Main chick for her. Not keep the both of them. People that have side people shouldn’t be in a relationship period , because they only care about themselves and what they feel is best for themselves , they have no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves

[ohsheeT]

Well they choose by knowing that the main chick is not going to be asking this question because she knows and she demands that she's the only chick.. . So if you are one of those two you need to choose who you want to be and the reasons why and make that obvious to the guy or walk away

[Asker]

I just found out that the guy that I’d been seeing for a month had a girlfriend. I immediately blocked him on everything. I’m just wondering why he decided to make me the side chick.

[ohsheeT]

Well that's a good question I mean and. . But it goes deeper than that.

Why does he feel the need to screw up not only his life but two other people that have no idea what he's doing when he gets caught..

I mean there has to be something that he really liked about you so why didn't he just break up with his girlfriend and start going out with you..

And the same time I ask that question is doesn't really matter because I look at it like if he does it to her he's going to do it to you anyway..

[DishLady]

Why would you want a guy to choose you as either one if he’s that type of guy? Both girls end up miserable and constantly doubting the guy and themselves the whole time. And what gives a guy the right to do this at all? It’s disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Only cheaters make that choice, not real men.

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm not that kind of guy, myself. But the way the thought process has been explained to me:

Main chick = the one we actually trust and want around.

Side chick = a little more fun but not someone we could ever actually trust or rely on.

[BetaBucks]

The one who came first is the main, the one who came second is the side. If you're asking who he gives more time and love to, the answer is to the one that treats him better.

[RavVid]

I think the side chick is going to be more trophy worthy. If the side chick isn't better than main chick what is the point?

The main chick probably just moved into your bed earlier is all.

[Drewtate]

The main chick is usually a quality woman unwilling to be a side chick for any man. The side chick is good for a f*ck but nothing more.

[jahaims]

Whichever one has less self respect is the side chick

[LiamJHayden]

There will be no "side chick" in my life.

[Anonymous]

Based on which one enthusiastically takes it in the ass.

[MasterKS]

whom you fucking is main chick whom you not fucking is side chick!

[Sonorous]

This is a simple concept.

[Serkee]

Only fuckboys and cheaters have side chicks.

[laly520]

men? more like cheaters

[Pohjolan]

Fuckboys are usually not cheaters as they never entered a relationship in the first place.

[DrPepper12]

Convenience
Trust
LTR vs FB
Chemistry

[Anonymous]

How do you choose men who think like this

[OddBeMe]

Whomever swallows wallows

[Jmmmfi4]

WHO GIVES BETTER HEAD

[normalice]

Probably butt stuff.

[Anonymous]

Everybody has backups 😒