Who do men love more the side chick or main chick?

[Anonymous]

[YourFutureEx]

How can I love a side chick if she's the "side" chick and not the "main" one? The main one is the "main" one for a reason.

Is love the reason? Lol no. If I really loved her, I'd not have a side chick in the first place.

I am a one woman man. I have never cheated, never will.

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Those were just personal opinions. Generally, men love their main chick more (way more). Yes, guys can cheat and still love their SO. Guys only cheat for pleasure, not feelings/attachment/love etc... Just pleasure. The sex. The thrill. The novelty. Unlike women who generally cheat when they have lost the feelings for their man.

[DrunkAss]

I never did the side chick thing but I picked up a stray cat before who was injured. And now she's spoiled and fat and an attention hog. Then recently I found this little one outside my door, and he likes to jump up when you put your hand out. It's like he head-bumps your hand. And he sleeps on your lap. Well, I skipped parts. First he was hissing and running away. But I brought out the cat treats and I worked him up to a point where he was sitting on my lap. And now my main cat is pissed. She's like, "WTF are you doing with that cat? You don't love me anymore? And I'm like, "No, you're my very best. Here is a treat. But that cat is awesome. Like I put out my hand and he jumps and gets on two legs and head-bumps it. You don't do that. You probably can't because you're a fattie and totally out of shape. I should make you exercise more."

[wittymilf]

I’m really falling for this guy 🤔... oh fuck did I say that out loud!

[DrunkAss]

I love wittymilf too.

[wittymilf]

You always go missing, how are you?

[DrunkAss]

I always feel like this site doesn't put me in a good sort of spot after a while. It starts pissing me off, and maybe because I almost only use it when I'm drunk. I'm doing all right -- well as an extroverted type can do in this covid stuff. So far I haven't painted any pictures on the walls and started humping them. So I figure I'm fine! How are you?

[wittymilf]

This place makes me dark too... I’ve been shit as if I’m honest... and strangely I started painting yesterday 🤔

[wittymilf]

It’s hard to stay shiny 😕

[DrunkAss]

@wittymilf Painting what and with what? Acrylics, watercolor, gouache, oils? I love the oils but ventilation is sort of a prob.

[wittymilf]

Oh I use water based oils ! Revolutionary

[wittymilf]

I was just trying to paint my shit out... free up some space in my soul.

[DrunkAss]

@wittymilf I gotta try those. When I was a kid I painted a picture of Jane Fonda naked from Barbarella for art class. It was a huge canvas and I brought it to school. Everyone else had pictures of pots or animals or something. I got gigantic Jane Fonda nude picture I brought. And I painted it real good -- meticulous detail, even the highlights on the nipples. I got suspended at the end the teachers had to have a conference with my parents.

[wittymilf]

Why do you always try n seduce me like this 🙄. I love this story

[wittymilf]

I was also in the process of telling an Interesting cat story in another g@g that reminded me of what it’s like to talk to you.

[DrunkAss]

I just have a seductive way about me, I guess. It's like women just drop their panties as I tell them stories about how I dropped a computer one time at school when a girl walked by and she had those super short shorts and you can see the lower side of her butt with them and I got carried away imagining how both of the holes looked like and dropped the computer.

[wittymilf]

That’s some serious software to drop on account of your hardware.

[DrunkAss]

Nothing was soft as I remembered it except for her butt.

[Anonymous]

Depends. I guess I'm technically "the side chick" but he spends alllllll his time with me (he's married) so I'd say he's STARTING to love me more ;p... and then hopefully I'll become the main chick!!

[Asker]

That's so damn sad he's never going to leave his wife

[Opinion Owner]

He might.

[Asker]

You deserve better.. he MIGHT do the same he did to you

[Opinion Owner]

I was an accident c: he didn't ask for this

[Tiffanyrosebarbie]

Definitely there main girl I've been the side girl a few times and they just used me for a quick shag or dirty sex!

[TheorionMage]

Unless the guy is an insecure Narcissist there needs be NO side chick,
IF the main chick knows her glamoury. Males are overwhelmingly 'visual'

Old Appalachian proverb:
"A well-fed dog stays on YOUR porch, and doesn't run with the pack chasing wild game."

Put another way, "a WISE man doesn't leave what he KNOWS he won't find elsewhere"
... and, if he ISN'T 'wise'... why do YOU remain pursuing him?

[Melvinb6521]

He might like them both, but if he loved one, it’s not a full love.


Even in polygamy, both women would be wives, not main and side chicks.


The main chick is probably the one that came first, or makes him look best; and the side chick is probably the one that is more sexually willing.

[godfatherfan]

Any guy with a "side chick" is a piece of shit and not worth being with. Though, to me, the person that helps someone cheat is a bigger piece of shit then the person cheating.

[Don-__-Don]

Main chick, obviously.

If a man loved the side chick more then they wouldn't be one in the first place.

Side chicks are called that for a reason, they're just someone to have on the side. Having you around or not doesn't make much of a difference.

[Newhead]

If he was in love, he wouldn't have a side chick, dude is very confused and will give you both coronavirus and herpes.

[Cupcakes_No_Flakes]

He loves neither because if he loved the main chick then he wouldn't be using a side chick. Now, if he loved the side chick then she wouldn't be the side and instead be the main chick.

[Hangry22]

Side chick for sexual love and main chick for emotional love

[Anonymous]

Neither or they wouldn't have two chicks in the first place.

[israelisevil]

Depends situation. As someone who was side guy they dont care about you they just want be your friend and fuck you but never a relationship.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Ha, neither. I’ve seen the other side. There’s nothing

[Dave31989]

don't generalize

also, if he needs a side chick... he's not a man

[Anonymous]

They love the main chick and have fun with the gumar

[ItsTheNephilim]

Neither of those two.

[slatyb]

The don't love either. They love only themselves.

[wittymilf]

The main is your treasure the side is your treat.

[Cupcakes_No_Flakes]

No. We are queens. He loves neither. We won't tolerate this

[wittymilf]

@Cupcakes_No_Flakes 🤷‍♀️ Who can blame a person for wanting treasure and treats?

[Cupcakes_No_Flakes]

I don't know. I just want girls to have respect for themselves. As a conservative female raised be another conservative female, I'm really saddened by today's society in terms of normalizing the behavior of being a hoe or being treated like one.

[wittymilf]

@Cupcakes_No_Flakes the saying comes from a line in a jazz song from the 50s where that kinda behaviour was just standard 🤷‍♀️

[Cupcakes_No_Flakes]

I see. My grandma told me girls were way more conservative and respectful back then? USA?

[wittymilf]

@Cupcakes_No_Flakes yup girls just accepted what there men were doing I think. They never stood up for themselves.

[wittymilf]

Ok song is World of Trouble by Lou Rawls... which is crack up coz loo rolls 😂😂

[Cherokeehp]

Neither. He’s just using the both of them.

[Inquisitive3]

Main. Side chick is a free hooker to them.

[Ally247]

Neither

[Inquisitive3]

Fair point.

[Ally247]

If he loved the main, he wouldn't have a side. If he loved the side, he would make her his main.

[Cupcakes_No_Flakes]

Hey you coped me?

[Ally247]

Damn I didn't even read yours. Great minds think alike

[Cataphract]

Neither.

[SwizzBlue]

Whichever has the better p*ssy

[OddBeMe]

Depends on which is bitchier that week.

[Anonymous]

The chick that digs anal more...

[jasco]

Main chick for me

[Anonymous]

Themselves.

[Anonymous]

Main chick