What's it like to have like 10 exes?

[red324]

I don't have much long term dating experience. As in they usually move onto to someone else after a month or two. There's really only one girl that I guess I really fell for, but it was the same thing. She moved on after like 3 months. So this begs the question for everyone that's gotten farther than me in the dating world. What do you do when you have like 10 exes that really had an effect on you? I suppose you take something with you with each one you meet, and of course, some you were probably glad to get rid of and some that left you when you didn't really want them to etc. I've gone on dates with probably 200 girls over my life, but like I said never really got far enough to really fall for one except that one. It just seems to me like a person would be quite a mess emotionally if they had a bunch of past relationships that didn't work out.

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, 10 exes seems crazy to me! At this point I've only ever had like 1 or 2 girls I was kinda seeing but nothing too serious. Can't imagine how weird it must feel having so many past relationships that didn't work out. I guess each one would teach you something different about what you like and don't like in a partner, but yeah emotionally it'd probably be tough having that many not work. I'd feel like I was doin something wrong or maybe I just suck at relationships, you know? Bet a lot of em still live in your head too even after breaking up. Props to those people who can have that many exes without being a total mess afterwards! For me I think it's better to just take things slow and not force anything. If it feels right it feels right, but if someone loses interest quick oh well, onto the next I say. No use getting too hung up on any one person yet since I'm still young. Kinda curious how dating and relationships change as you get older though, bet it ain't always easy dealing with ex baggage!

[Nikki1989]

They are just 10 people you once were intimate with, but now are hopefully just friends. Not a big deal. Most people our age would have at least 10 exes by now.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like most women the moment they turn 19.

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Taylor swift

[Opinion Owner]

I'm surprised she's not at over 100 ex's

[red324]

Does she ever date normal guys or just other celebrities? She's gotta be running out of celebrity options by now.