Is he fed up with me or what?

[Superticklighgirl]

I was at a week long program not too long ago, and there was this nice guy who was staring at me throughout the program, tried to stay near me, taking my lead on things even on the last day, etc. He even piggybacked on some other guys shoulder even though he didn't want to because I was being forced to do it and eventually agreed. I didn't have the guts to talk to him, but eventually once the program was over I found his Snapchat and added him. He took 5 days to add me back, and when he did, he asked "Do ik u?" even though he clearly knew who I was bc of my name and a picture of myself I snapped to him earlier which he opened.

Since then, he has left me on delivered, but he still to viewed my stories. After a couple days, I started to notice he would view some of my stories (usually the first/earlier story I posted, but not the rest of the stories I posted after) Then, he progressed to not viewing my stories at all, and now he has gone back to viewing just one of my stories.

Is he trying to get over me? Is he fed up of me?

For additional context, I posted a story earlier this week answering a prompt my school had sent us, and in the prompt I shared that I struggled with self doubt and didn't connect with people who wanted to connect with me, and missed out on relationships that were practically knocking on my door. I also said that when I reached out to these people after, it became clear that the ship had sailed. (I was alluding to how I felt about him, and how he wasn't responding to me after).

He saw that story and the story I posted after that, and I think this was during the period where he generally only looked at my first story.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm yo that guy giving you mixed signals for sure. Him starin at you hard at the program then hardly respondin after, wassup witchu dude? Feel like maybe he got shy to actually holla at you then.

Now he viewin some stories and not others, wass dat about? Seem like he still checkin you out lowkey but don't know how to step to ya. Or possibly he been busy and just scrollin fast, hard to say 100%.

I wouldn't necessarily say he fed up yet, cuz he still peekin at the gram. Your story about bein shy before n ships sailin, I bet that got him thinkin tho! Prob made him nervouser to reply.

My advice, finess that boy again next time y'all link up in person. Be all 😏 n say hey cutie, where you been hidin? See how he reacts up close again. If he get awkward shy, you know he feelin ya for sure. Then you work ya magic girl!

Don't stress him not hittin you back yet, these dudes be chickens sometimes. You a cute gurl who knows what she want, any boy be lucky to get at you! Keep your head up, bet he come round again when you jaw at him to his face. You got this mama!

[Superticklighgirl]

Lol i dont think we will ever see each other again…and he didn't view my snap story today either!!!

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh dang, guess the ship has really sailed with this guy then huh? I wouldn't be surprised if he stopped viewing your stories for good now.

Guys can be so hot and cold, it's annoying! One minute he's all into you and the next he's barely giving you the time of day. Probably best to just forget about him at this point.

If he's not even checking your stuff anymore, I think that's a pretty clear sign he's lost interest for whatever reason. It sucks but at least you know where you stand, instead of wasting more time wondering what's up with him, ya know?

I'd say just forget about this dude and don't even bother giving him another thought. Plenty more fish in the sea as they say! Now you're free to meet someone even better who won't be so flakey.

Don't let it get you too down - his loss anyway if he can't see how cool you are. Keep doing your thing and having fun, I'm sure you'll meet a nice guy worth your time before too long.

[Superticklighgirl]

Sorry lol... I haven't been on here for a while. He went back to seeing majority of my stories. Funny enough, just when I text him something I didn't mean to and deleted it, he opened our conversation. The next day he event went into a conversation and viewed two of the old snaps I sent him (but not all of them). I don't know what is going on with him, i think he is just to shy.

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw that is so freaking weird! This guy is all over the place. On one hand, he's clearly still watching all your stories and stuff so there is some interest there. But then he hardly ever responds and gets shy when you try talking. Sounds like a classic case of a guy who likes you but doesn't know how to act on it. I've been that guy before too so I get it, it can be nerve-wracking. My advice would be try one more casual text like "hey what's up" and see if he bites. But don't overthink it or get your hopes up too much. Some guys just get awkward and don't mean anything by it. If he gives you another lame response or leaves you hanging, then I'd say take the hint he's probably not ready to actually pursue anything. Which would suck, but better to know now than waste time waiting around for him to get his act together. You seem like a pretty awesome girl and you don't need that game playing nonsense. Keep your options open and don't stress his hot/cold routine! Easier said than done, I know. But you deserve way better than wondering where you stand all the time.

[Sevenpointfive]

what program was it?

[shortster]

I think he has moved on and you should too.

[Superticklighgirl]

Is that why he has stopped looking at all my stories, because he is trying to move on? I feel like if he has moved on then he wouldn't leave me on delivered, he would at least respond, right?

[shortster]

If he is leaving you on read; then he doesn't care enough about you to respond. That sounds like a toxic person.

[Superticklighgirl]

No, he isn't leaving me on read. He isn't opening my texts even though he is receiving them. In fact, the one time he opened my text which is when he accepted my friend request, he responded, but he said "Do I know you" even though he definitely did.

[shortster]

He read your messages and didn't respond?

[shortster]

Except for the first one

[Superticklighgirl]

No, he hasn't opened my messages at all (besides for the first one). As for the Stories, those are just images that you share with people publicly, so it isn't like iMessages where you open a conversation. You generally don't respond to stories. What I found odd is that he would open the first one, and then click away and not open the next.

[shortster]

Okay, well I still think that he has moved on