Is he done with me?

[Anonymous]

So there’s this guy R and we’re friends but he’s always talking trash. But it’s strange because he’ll call me 20 times till I answer and if I don’t he’ll call my friend (I buy nothing, I do no favors. Tbh I benefit I get free beach trips and gas money and sometimes just free money basically) so recently he just tried to make a move on me again and it was kinda romantic but the first time he tried to do something I said eww that’s gross and he never tried again. I’m pretty sure he likes me at least a little bit because his homeboy mentioned something once where he only had feelings for me. So R likes to makes fun of me too much tbh. And he was making jokes about what man will want me ever And my friend is very bold and said b*tch didn’t u just try to get with her don’t act dumb and he got kinda upset and he’s still hitting me up and giving me money. But will I ever have another chance to smash again?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo this whole thing with R sounds mad messy ngl. On the one hand, he's like always hitting you up and giving you money and shit which is cool. But then he also be talking trash about you and making jokes, which is wack.

Seems to me like he's probably got some real feelings for you, but is too scared to fully admit it so he masks it by clowning on you. That's some lame ass games if you ask me. A real dude would just tell you how he feels straight up.

As far as smashing again, I think you still got a shot if you want it. But you gotta make him cut the crap first. Next time he talks trash, shut that ish down hard. Let him know you ain't about that, and if he wants anything from you he needs to show you respect.

Maybe tell him straight up like "look, I know you wanna smash again but I'm not fucking with these little insults. You wanna hit, you gotta treat me right." Give him an ultimatum, you feel me? Make him step his game up or kick rocks. ‘Cause you ain’t got time for no man's games and confusion. Stand your ground, he’ll either shape up or ship out. Then you’ll know for real if he's serious or just talking. But you got this!

[spartan55]

You expect him to keep chasing you when you act like this?

[Asker]

Act how?

[Anonymous]

Nope.