What do men mean when they say “You’re dangerous”?

Question

I’ve been told something similar by my best guy friend before, he said “Oh, you’re a troublemaker”

And now this old date of mine invites me on a dinner, after coming back from holidays and I told him dinner is boring and I crave something more fun and action-oriented and we have decided for racing and he told me “You’re dangerous!”

Why am I? Just because I find dinners more boring than Action dates?

UnicornLobotomy · Accepted Answer

I’m not always 100% relevant when I answer questions, however I can tell you with certainty what most men are going to mean they say that. You’re a heart breaker. You act and look like a baddie, a free spirit, you’re wild, maybe not on purpose, it could be that you’re just too individualistic, either a loner with weird hobbies maybe implying a troubled upbringing and mental problems - implying clinginess/stalking or unpredictability/suddenly breaking up, or too social and outgoing - implying promiscuity.

With family and divorce court the way they are for fathers and husbands, if you had kids together and you’re looking long term, it implies Goldigger or drama lover.

To young men in college or poor trailer parks it implies STDs or false accusations and stabby mcstabs-a-lot type of drama.

So even though I didn’t answer the q I gave you all the options it could mean. So give me most helpful here I sat and typed this on my phone for like 4 minutes

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

It’s just his way of saying you are always on your toes and wanting to get into something , basically implying you can’t settle down, you are always on the go , and if he can’t keep up with you , you are dangerous to him because you might find someone that can keep up with you

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Ah, not knowing anything about you I’ve already heard from a few gag friends who will remain anon. that you’re a dangerous little troublemaker… So perhaps figure it out.

I’ve told guys they seem dangerous when I get a certain vibe off them, like I’m about to lose my footing.

You probably make them feel like they’re gonna trip on their own Ds. 😂

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

Probably hold a power of sexual manipulation or I don't know coercion with ease? 🤷‍♀️

That or a dangerous lady compared to most females- very adventurous or bold I suppose.

very hot that’s for sure whether she’s exciting lively or seductive

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

The more attracted a guy is to a woman the easier it is for them to throw all logic or reason out the window for her.

Not just counting myself but I've seen men make absolutely terrible decisions because they were under the spell of a woman who they found irresistible.

A guy knows a woman is dangerous when this effect creeps in so fast they can catch themselves in real time seriously contemplating ideas that are objectively insane.

Dangerous woman are how dudes who previously were totally normal guys end up basically loosing everything simping to his love interest. I've seen guys never recover.

RavVid · Answer

I would think a girl dangerous when I judge the combination of her beauty, femininity and perhaps flirtyness might provoke me into a primal response. There have been a few times but fortunately the girl did not take offense.

It could have gone otherwise.

imtiaz45 · Answer

When a man says "You're dangerous," it often implies that he finds the person—usually a woman—highly attractive, captivating, or alluring in a way that feels intense or overwhelming. It can suggest that the person has a powerful effect on him, possibly making him feel vulnerable or out of control emotionally. The phrase can also carry a playful or flirtatious tone, indicating that the person is intriguing or challenging in a way that excites him but also makes him cautious. The context and tone in which it's said can greatly influence its meaning.

kmg9150 · Answer

Their flirting. Like if a girl said she was reading a book, “Your such a nerd, always reading”. I’m lost to find a reason why you wouldn't like it, unless its to where I got worry about getting clubbed or stabbed while entangled in play fight. So are you?

D_D_D · Answer

@lafemmefatale_1 I think it's kinda form of flirting.. like a dominant hot dangerous girl is hot so he acknowledges you as one in a flirty way to show you that he's into it.. I know I am lol😅😂

Anonymous · Answer

That you're irresistible, and if he gets involved with you, you're going to turn his whole life upside-down.

molonski2 · Answer

It means along the lines of " You could get me into a great deal of trouble " ..

just_a_potato · Answer

Whenever someone has ever told me that, I assume they mean I'll get them to do something that they wouldn't normally do. And it's usually said in a very playful tone. I take it as flattery personally 😏

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I would just inform our asker that LaFemmeFatale_1 is a rather inoffensive name for someone deemed dangerous. To signify danger I would have expected more terrorizing names like:  Psycho_DarkWarrior71 HellBikerDemon2 Vegeta_SSJ4 BlackKnightofDoomCurseDragon

Still-alive · Answer

You're probably really good with your flirting and it also could mean he thinks you likely have a lot of options to you and its hard to 'win' you over other dudes.

virtualwasp · Answer

They mean your intelligent enough that if brains were made of dynamite 🧨 you have enough to blow your nose 👃💥

lorenzomichael · Answer

It means if we met oh shit, something sexy is about to happen. It might not end well but everyone likes a hot suspense. It means you like the bad as dangerous against the law shit that I love. Look out it’s Batman and Catwoman.

LiamJHayden · Answer

He's saying he might make bad decisions while under your influence.

Anonymous · Answer

Isn't it appropriate for your name? Own the fact that you may exude a Femme Fatale vibe, which can be both seductive and dangerous for many men.

paledreams · Answer

Forgetting to smile at the job or forgetting to put out a *wet floor sign, cleaning in progress* sign at work? Lol 🛑

DizzyDesii · Answer

The only time i heard “you’re dangerous” is when he had a girlfriend or was hiding that he had a girlfriend and knew he was digging a grave for himself

WhitneySnow · Answer

You’re a femme fatale lol

msc545 · Answer

They mean that you should pull over and let them drive.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

This sounds more like a joke, and them guys tell you this to sort of flirt with you a bit?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Isn't that why you chose your name?

JesseP1nk · Answer

He probably watched Top Gun

Nikki1989 · Answer

I would take it as a compliment.

Anonymous · Answer

Manipulative, would use whatever they can to get whatever they want. Would try to ruin a man’s livelihood to gain more. Wouldn’t hesitate or have remorse or empathy.

Ladsin2 · Answer

They see the gun in your pocket. Stop wearing tight jeans for better conceal carry.

dudegreat91 · Answer

Perhaps they mean that they find you exciting.

Taniisokay · Answer

Ask him directly what he means by his.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m loving it.

eagle1951 · Answer

could mean a few things

NathanDavis · Answer

you make them think less... lol

Rapport · Answer

That you’re a liability.

elaphe · Answer

They are afraid you will hurt them.

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This sounds more like a joke, and them guys tell you this to sort of flirt with you a bit?

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This sounds more like a joke, and them guys tell you this to sort of flirt with you a bit?

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