What is one thing you would change about your looks and one thing you would change about your personality?

[elaphe]

[blueonblack22]

I have a major problem with getting fixated on issues and overthinking it while forgetting and acting oblivious to other issues. This really made my life difficult socially and more importantly in dating growing up.

I am not that good at handling difficult people and I create “boundaries” by completely ignoring them. In the past I would either say too little or too much when handling conflict. So now if I don’t like someone I’ll just cut them off.

But I hold grudges (which is horrible for mental health). Have a hard time letting go of things and forgetting about them.

I do have clinical ADHD so I try to give myself grace.

[art84]

Looks maybe look more masculine. I look like my mom.

Personality: Remove social anxiety

[jennifer_bloom]

The main thing about my looks is I want more collagen production on my skin since I have gotten new wrinkles on my wrists and parts of my face since the pandemic started. This might be caused by social isolation or a lack of outdoor activity cause after 2020 I stopped leaving the house 6 days a week to go to work or 4 days a week to go to school.

[mandyfire98]

Looks: I'd probably make my butt a little bigger honestly.

Personality: I'd remove my ADHD

[elaphe]

Are you using the term "ADHD" colloquially, or have you been formally diagnosed?

[DishLady]

Meh... I've lived this way my whole life. I figure I can make it through the rest of my life without making any major changes.

[liabalia]

I’m 5’1 thick and curvy, but I would love to be maybe 5’8 thick and curvy. Personality wise, though I am a highly motivated person, but I procrastinate so bad. I have to try harder

[Crimsyjo]

Haha same here! On all your points.

[liabalia]

@Crimsyjo it’s all a blessing and a curse lol

[England4eva]

I would choose bigger lips. I don't like the look of fake lips, but if I could naturally enhance them without injecting nasty stuff into them I definitely would. My personality to care less about what others think and say about me.

[PeachyPie93]

Looks: My face. I would want to look more like my grandma she was super pretty. And maybe be a bit taller.
Personality: My self hatred and evilness lol

[Smashingdoozy]

Maybe slightly bigger lips.
Personality wise probably less clingy

[Spracklacino]

My little flab on my stomach from my C-section. It makes me hate how I look. It’s utterly embarrassing to me. My personality I wish I could listen to nonsense better I suppose or not always have an opinion.

[DrPepper12]

Lose the last of the weight I put on from Guillian Barre syndrome

Anxiety & arrogance

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

Would like to have more muscular arms.

Would be nice to be less shy.

[TheLimeNan]

I'd love to loose some weight (which I'm working on) and love to be more comfortable outgoing

[Anonymous]

My looks: I would make my stomach area a lot smaller and personality wise I would make myself a lot more self assured

[Anonymous]

I want my skin to be lighter all over my body and I want to be a calmer woman

[Radiate143]

Nose

Be more detached

[Alex-Snow]

Not a thing I like how I am

[bobby_bush_eater]

Taller.

Less judgmental

[Crazzyyworld]

I wouldn't change a thang.

[itsgonnabemee]

Bigger lips
Be more confident

[robocop666]

Not much women like me