Women are sweet like honey feminine like flowers and beatiful as butterflys?

[Anonymous]

but why won't not even one single soul come up to me and say i like you

[ManInChains]

The bunny from holy grail Monty python was cute until it ate them and spit out their bones. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Sirens are attractive so that they can lure sailors to their death.

[DrPepper12]

Well what vibes are you sending off or how do you present yourself? Is it a clothing issue? Body language? Make up? Maybe it's just the wrong people!

[Asker]

i can't really change my looks as a guy

[DrPepper12]

Not true.

[Anonymous]

Because in majority of cases, women expect men to approach them. That is what’s mainly been instilled in us at least as of a generation or two ago.

[Asker]

im scared to approach them

[Opinion Owner]

You should work on that then, because 9/10 a woman is not going to approach you.

[Asker]

i mean any woman woudnt tbh

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe one will at some point but the chances of that are far and few between, so if that’s what you’re waiting on then you’re gonna be waiting a long time. I don't know what you’re scared of but keep in mind that she probably has those fears too, like rejection. Someone has to be the brave one and in most cases it would have to be you. So you might wanna start working on that confidence.

[Asker]

i get your point but no woman showed me interest except 1 or 2 in my entire life so how do i pick ome if no one shows interest in me

[Opinion Owner]

So what does showing interest look like to you? Because in most cases a woman is going to be subtle about it. Sometimes trying not to show outward interest all together.

[Asker]

like maybe handing her phone number out to me on a paper silently

[Opinion Owner]

See, you’re waiting for a woman to make the first move. You’re going to be waiting a long time if you don’t work on your confidence, dude. To me, showing interest are in the signs, like she’s really giggly or smiley around you, looking at you a lot or trying to be around you, things like that.

[Asker]

making the first move is my biggest fear

[Opinion Owner]

It’s scary but you’ll never work through that and overcome it if you don’t try.

[Asker]

than ill stay single for a while thanks

[Opinion Owner]

What are you so afraid of? Rejection? You don’t think a woman is afraid of that either?

[Asker]

i have been rejected for many times i dont think i can do that anymore

[Opinion Owner]

So why not work on building your confidence even if it’s on your own and not interacting with women at all? You just don’t want to? If you truly would rather be single until whenever the time in the future is that a woman approaches then do your thing, but to me that sounds miserable and lonely. I’d rather take control of my own life while I’m still here on earth, tomorrow is not promised man.

[Asker]

this is the most confident i can get tbh more than this is difficult for me

[Opinion Owner]

So the most confidence you can get is having none at all? I don’t believe that, but it’s for you to discover that yourself. Good luck with all this!

[Asker]

thank you for your support

[Nikki1989]

Most of us still expect men to do the approaching. It is not something I follow personally.

[Asker]

i find it difficult to approach women

[_Senorita_]

Nice poem 😁

[Asker]

thanks

[beefcakebradybatson]

Except fugly broads !!!