Just the overall beauty of the look... the lashes, the hair, the makeup, the clothing... <3
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That's only opinion cause its subjective. You could be a graphic model with those pics lol
That is the natural order, guys are attracted to girly girls.
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Because it separates the girls from the boys
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Well you would think men would be programmed to be attracted to femininity rather than masculinity as women are programmed to be attracted to masculinity, though doesn't always seem to go that way lol since so many guys tend to say they prefer tomboys to girly women.
Tomboys are usually still feminine, by the way. That said, men are drawn to femininity because of biological programming.
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What's more attractive to a guy.
A woman in a soft flowing sweet summer dress or a woman in shorts and a T-shirt? What draws me to femininity?
The first and most immediate and obvious kind of femininity is physical femininity⌠waist-to-hip ratio, breasts, long hair, slight shoulders, curves, soft skin, body shape, and a higher pitched voice. It includes the biological cues that subconsciously tell me, here is a woman that looks healthy and could carry and care for my offspring. These qualities manifest themselves in sexual attractiveness.
There is feminine behavior. It is not so quickly noticed as the physical, but it contributes to the overall picture of womanliness, and is therefore a part of the draw. Iâm talking about body language like bending the wrist or putting a hand on the hip, walking with graceful gait, having an easy rapport with young children, and avoiding typically male behavior like spitting, belching, farting, and overuse of vulgar language.
The most profound femininity isnât physical or behavioral, though. Itâs internal. Itâs about feminine longings. You generally have to get to know a woman to learn about these, but theyâre the final draw. These include the desire to make a house a home, to participate in community and maintain connections, to have (or want) children, to have (or want) a husband, and to care for family.
All of this is femininity. It encompasses beauty and exudes beauty. It is the opposite of me and my nature as a man. I canât help but be drawn to it.
Finally, and this is really just a side note, I donât think âtomboyâ is necessarily the right word to indicate the opposite of a feminine woman. As others have commented, it can be attractive in its own way. A woman can be perfectly feminine and still enjoy things like rock climbing, playing electric guitar, fishing, and riding motocross. Maybe âbutchâ would be a better choice to describe a woman that men would not be drawn to.Common misconception that tomboys can't be feminine.
Femininity an evolutionary trait found in females to balance the masculinity in men. It's why there is a masculine and feminine male in gay couples. It's an instinctual and natural occurrence. That's not saying it's inherently good or bad but it is a fact of selection.
Feminine energy keeps masculine energy in line and vice versa. It's necessary to a functional society at the point.That's a tough one. I spose the simplest answer is men are hardwired to feel that way. But there's gotta be more to it than that.
Why are flowers beautiful? They're round, with curvy petals. They reflect the sunlight with beautiful colors. They smell pretty. They're delicate. And when someone gives you one, you can't help but love them.
Contrast it with it's opposites: Gentleness and kindness vs anger and violence. Pretty vs ugly. Smells nice vs smells rotten.
I guess I'd say that's why. Lovely things are healthful. Nasty things are deadly.I actually like certain tomboy types, like skaterboy-era Avril Lavigne:
https://i2.wp.com/i.imgur.com/Gm1wKYb.jpg There's still plenty enough femininity there; I would never confuse her for a guy.
But I suppose what attracts me to "feminine" as opposed to "masculine" is just the differences. If I want someone who thinks like me and acts like me, I can hang around guys, and we can arm wrestle and pee on stuff, but I like that girls find it obnoxious when we arm wrestle and pee on stuff. There's some part of me that agrees with them that peeing on stuff is maybe not a good thing.I believe that while a tomboy ends Up in a greyzone in bewtween male and female. The feminine woman shines with what attracts men to woman.
Personally I find a feminine woman more physically Beautiful, but I would always be more attracted to a cute tomboy than a mean but Beautiful feminine woman.
So I would say that it's the personality that draws me to a woman.nurturing, Supportive, beautiful, respectful, focus on appearance (being clean and groomed) and focus on dress, it can also be refreshing when a girl is more feminine as she can be more bubbly in nature, sometimes a sweet girl is just what a guy needs.
I love a feminine look, it seems very beautiful to me - I also love a feminine submissive personality that is so attractive but in a way that she can be strong and independent, My girlfriend chooses to submit to me because she loves and trusts me totally to protect/care and love her.
I consider myself a feminine guy. First, let me explain what I think femininity is. I think it's how one sees nature as an almost poetic romanticism. Ones ability to love life (aka nature) in an open way. So to answer your question, I think a feminine female gets my attention more than a tom-boy type. Because honestly, I consider myself a romantic (both in literature and literally) and so I just don't like to do "guy stuff" but just enjoy being with my SO.
it's down to nature.
women were supposed to be the more submissive type caring for the kids making food edible whilst men were supposed to be the ones catching food protecting the tribe, kids, women and elderly.
all that stuff.
it's down to our nature like most of the things we do.
some people do prefer tom-boys over feminine ones but that's down to preference.Because I need a fertile woman to make babies. I want a family. I dont feel complete alone, I need another half. I am masculine so she must be feminine to achieve equilibrium. Feminine to me is not cultural, it is biological and chemical. The female sex hormones affect the female brain and it makes a woman behave in a way that appears to us humans as feminine. That pleases me. I want a feminine woman, because they are nurturing, that quality is good because I need it for raising the children. I can also make use of a nurturing woman, to take care of me when needed. She must be a good mom, all the qualities that come with femininity will make her a good mom for my children. Femininity gives women wide hips and breast milk for the baby. Wide hips are good for birthing babies it will help make birthing children easier. I want six children.
Feminine women stay inside there shell socially and all around in experience. Tom boys are open, knows how feels be a guy and girl, she tough and will not just make guys guess rather Tom gurl is real and down to earth.
Femininity has always been celebrated in art and culture going back centuries. Look at the art from Greece or Roam. Celebrated a feminine female form and ability to bring babies into this word. Femininity is the celebration of beauty and life giving. No one celebrates Tom-boys because they do not reflect thousands of years of history and culture.
Well shit then... After reading these comments it just confirmed that I'm going to be forever alone 😂 since I'm really tomboyish... I wear men's clothing, never wear dresses or use make up... Ever... My eyelashes are naturally pretty long so I guess that's okay... But honestly at this point I don't even care if I ever even have a boyfriend (I never had one) I prefer being alone 😂
After countless bad experiences with so called cis gender girls due to their absence of even a slight bit of masculinity, I met up with a girl who's trans in the hope's that she would have that slight masculine side. We have similar interests, she actually has a sense of humor which is a quality that is non existent in cis girls, she's smart, cool, and fun to be with.
God gave women the natural gift of femininity.
It's biologically ingrained that males are atttacted to the feminine qualities of a women as we are wired to desire/love it. Alpha men seek feminine women, and vice versa. This is due to many factors, but the main being procreation.
People of this generation need to realize that these aren't stereotypical gender roles, they are proven to be factual in human nature.because women are a work of art.
but feminists are a work of trash.I often prefer a more tom-boy type. My girlfriend is the best fit for me because she will be tom boyish when we're lazing around the flat but when she wants to she can look incredibly feminine and fit more into the "girly girl" category
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