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I go by a woman's personality, as a rule of thumb I look for a woman who is empathetic, compassionate, a woman who is capable of Caring about others and has not only respect for others but also has respect for herself, a woman who is willing to go out and give some homeless person a meal or a warm blanket and ask for nothing in return. A woman who looks beyond the physical and See's what in the heart and values love over material wealth.
No, there's broads that are drop dead gorgeous but I wouldn't fuck them with YOUR dick if you HAD ONE because they're raging bitches!! On the other hand, there's also women that aren't incredibly pretty but are attractive by their nature and personality.
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I wouldn't say it is the most attractive but it makes a huge factor because that is what we see at first. But as someone mentioned someone who is really looking may not get as many people, because others may know that they don't really stand a chance with a good-looking person. You said you attracted more when you were happy and confident because when you meet someone that kind of things can rub off on someone and people can instantly fell you are a fun person vs someone who is good looking and just stale, people might think she is uptight or doesn't want to be bothered. But overall woman looks can get you to much farther places than it can for a good-looking man. So overall looks is a woman's top priority because sadly its what gives the value.
Nah, it's intelligence & class to me. Physical beauty is obviously important towards attraction, but I'd rather an average looking girl with incredible wits instead of a supermodel without a clue in the world. Intelligence really is what adds to beauty. My dad once said about marriage "You can bang a girl for an hour, but what about the other 23?" Physical beauty certainly isn't everything & it doesn't last. We all get old & we all get ugly no matter if we like it or not. Most guys don't really start looking past how hot someone is physically till they're older.
1 personality: Even the most physically attractive women can have shit personality like posse bitchy constantly trying to start a fight not good
2 values: Values are incredibly important a lot of people don’t look at values but for me I look at conservative values so I would want to be with someone with the same value Emily Ratajkowski is hot as hell but her value are shit so as much as I like to look at her I would never want to be with her because her value are shit aka she’s a socialist
3 eyes soul Piercing eyes are incredible attractive something in there eyes make you feel like they know what you are thinking
4 body: Being physically attractive is important again I’ll use the model mention previously she is hot slim frame long hair clearly very physically attractive but again value are shit so I would never want to be with her beyond a one night stand
I always find beauty in girls/women that other men would just pass on by
I was at a small country store called Cox Market been in business since 1949
there have always been nice people who ran that store so I got to the check out
and there stands a Blonde hair girl about age 22 and she was all natural no
makeup and no lipstick but she was very adorable and had a very nice personality
but I had a dream the night before of meeting a natural light blonde hair girl
we didn't actually exchange numbers but I saw her so I believe that was a
sign from God and believe he just wanted me to see that in real life that
dreams can come true and there could be a chance that I would meet a
girl who can have any color of hair
No, physical beauty is absolutely not the most attractive quality.
Personality issues are a massive turn off. I don't think women always realize how bad their energy can be. You said it yourself; you were fit, but you had personality issues when you were skinnier and guys weren't asking you out too often. Guys picked up on that energy and stayed away. When you were in a better place emotionally, more guys gravitated to that, despite you being a little chubbier. If that's not conclusive proof that your vibe is more important than your physical appearance, I don't know what is.
Has anyone stopped and think about the fact that people may just prefer to go after what may seem to be an easier target? Beautiful women can be quite crippling to a man. Particularly a younger man. I personally have never been hit on more in my entire life than now when I am maxing my looks and hitting the gym hard. However I've almost never seen women approach man and the few times the guy was average looking at best. I've see women openly confess they don't go after the guy they really want because the fear of rejection is crippling, even if said guy approached them. They immediately feel unworthy of such a man.
Remember correlation doesn't always mean causation.
No! No! No! There’s more to a woman than her beauty. She needs to be graceful, confident, intelligent, independent, caring, kind, loyal and understanding. This pretty much applies both to men and women. However, the most attractive quality in a woman is probably her confidence. Guys love a confident woman :D
I used to consider beauty everything until I realised it wasn't. My take is, a lot of people are beautiful and because almost every girl is, there has to be something else that sets your girl apart from the rest. Mine is a girl that is sold out to God and His ways. I saw this in one girl and have been hooked ever since.
It is not a fixed thing.. men differ in their preferences , and it is actually a mix between many qualities. The point is what quality comes first for a man in his dream woman.. it is a kind of prioritising them according to your beliefs and values and your goal from a relationship
Looks attract guys but character keeps him. Some guys want to waste/spend time with women who only have looks. Others won't even spend one second on a woman without the right character. The guys who say looks never/ever matter, I think that's a rare case.
The youngest guys tend to only care about looks -- but it depends on the guy.
So now you know why there's a lot of attractive looking woman who can't keep a man.
for jerks with no brain, yes it is. for men who want a wife, a mother for their children, and a kind and humorous companion, beauty is not the most important. it still has a role to play, but regardless of looks, a woman with a shit personality won't last long in a relationship. unless she finds her male equivalent.
Nope. For some guys it's "vulnerability" for others it's the group you're with - or lack of it. Yet others go for your dress sense and mannerism.
In other words, there is no one thing alone which makes you "attractive" to another person.
It wasn't due to confidence is sounds like you just simply learned how to become more out going and approachable.
However beauty is something that men value very much in a woman.
Beauty is one important thing, but social skills and character are both very important. I've approached a number of very beautiful women and got rejected or got their number.
Now there are very beautiful women who lack social skills or are as dumb as doorknobs and that's a big turn off for me.
Beauty is nice to have, but for me it's intelligence and personality with a good bit of sense of humor thrown in.
Everyones view on beauty is different as well as it's importance as far as it being an attractive quality.
Nope, it's the way she carries herself and her sex appeal along with confidence. For example, have you ever seen a lady in her 50s-60s wearing a skirt, stockings, & high heels that has sex appeal written all over her but she may not even be beautiful and then see a very gorgeous lady in some blue jeans that look like they've been dripped on, huge shirt, airways think she is ugly. I'ma take the first one over the latter
Yes.. but..
That can be quickly overshadowed if the girl has problems. You know being materialistic, annoying, daddy issues, severe mental problems, etc.
Unlike women that wants a bad boy to turn him good.
Men doesn't want a project that can blow up in his face. So even if you're like a super model if you have issues men will pass. Well the smart ones would anyways...
For some people beauty is but not always the sole quality of a woman's attractiveness.
All of it. Being beautiful doesn't mean that she would attract a lot of boys. But being pretty, kind, intelligent, confident etc. would attract a lot of boys.
Well first of all what do you qualify as Beauty? Beauty has different manifestations. If you're talking about physical Beauty then no it isn't the most attractive quality in a woman. But then again it depends what intentions you have with said women.
It's a myth that men go on looks alone. Looks will get our attention for sure, but a horrible attitude will turn us off just as quick.
I’m not going to lie, outward appearance is what we first notice in a person, but it is definitely not the most important. Being attractive is a plus but it is not everything. There is more to a person than just the physical beauty.
No it isn't though of course it will get you more attention initially
I don’t understand why men like confidence in a woman. I think it can turn into arrogance. I guess that’s why I’m still single. I’m not confident to say and walk with an attitude ‘here I am’
From what I’ve seen men hate confident women lol and go for insecure women because they themselves are insecure. And there’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance, they aren’t the same thing. I’m neither though, I’m insecure af and I wish it was different
There's a big difference in confidence and arrogance.
Nah beauty fades...
Intelligence & confidence is hotter.
NO. Because they’re are NANY good looking women but very few that are funny, fun, witty, driven, loyal, selfless etc
The rarity of these traits in western women make them more valuable/attractive than beauty.
Nope not at all. Her confidence, personality, compassion and career orientation matter much more. :)
You're confusing initial interest with a woman's most desirable quality. They're not the same thing, and you can't judge what men want for a long-term relationship based on how much men approach women
It isn't that it is the most attractive quality but that it is the one that is immediately apparent upon first meeting. When I walk by you on the street I can't tell if you have a great sense of humor or are a great cook or wonderful humanitarian.
Nah confidence is much hotter tbh. As long as she looks decent, looks aren't that big of an issue
If you dont know them. Once I start talking to them, they just look different based on my interest in them
Like with you women and guys, confidence is an attractive quality. It can also make you seem more "approachable" and maybe even make her seem more friendly. It's not all about looks, even though it is what most of us notice first.
"Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" and there are five guys who like what their eyes are beholden, and confidence and carriage are included in that.
Initially yes, before spending some time together.
And if you look too good then it wouldn't make too much sense for you to be single, in a lot of guys eyes.
no Beauty ain't everything, cuz when you are yourself it shines through
Yes confidence helps but even at your ugliest you were probably still better than average.
no, her personality, how she treats others, her family, friends.
Beauty fades over time, so then what are you left with?
No had to do with confidence and the way she carries herself.
Beauty is a combination of things. You be be the most physically attractive/appealing person on the planet, But if the person's personally and habits are super toxic, then they went from a 10 to a 3
From a purely sexual point of view yes youth and beauty are the most important attributes for women.
Its all about nice vibes and hapiness. Men hate negative girls full of drama so the happier and confident you look the more people you will attract.
Looks aren't as big deal to guys then women make it out to be. You will see ugly women with hottest male models on the run way. How is it possible they got those guys?
Loyalty, humor, intelligence, spirituality (not religion) above looks any day.
Beauty attracts attention , it doesn’t necessarily attract love / romance
Depends on the guy. The question should be directed towards the type of guy you want to attract. They may have liked you for u or wanted see period. Confidence in men and women is attractive to both.
Beauty is like a juicy steak.
We love it.
The steak however can be contaminated with an awful personality like say oversalting it or overburning it to crisp.
Nope... her womenly virtues like affection , compassion, softness plays major role...
Who will get into relationship with a witch with beautiful face and physical attraction?
Self-care, confidence and empathy are 3 characteristics I appreciate in a woman.
No my boyfriend says it their demanor
Its only one of many desireable traits. There has to be more for it to go anywhere
Nope confidence and intelligence are far more attractive traits
Based on my YouTube likes it’s how funny a comedian they are.
I think beauty AND a confident personality are a deadly weapon for women.
Very true what in inside will complaint what outside
only white guys do but in Asian case it's different. they like good hearted woman than pretty ones.
It can't carry a women's appeal alone.
It's her introduction card. The rest is personality.
Both are really pretty
1- looks
2- personality
No its not
Her character, her brains and her confidence.
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