I’m not going to lie, outward appearance is what we first notice in a person, but it is definitely not the most important. Being attractive is a plus but it is not everything. There is more to a person than just the physical beauty.
I don’t understand why men like confidence in a woman. I think it can turn into arrogance. I guess that’s why I’m still single. I’m not confident to say and walk with an attitude ‘here I am’
From what I’ve seen men hate confident women lol and go for insecure women because they themselves are insecure. And there’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance, they aren’t the same thing. I’m neither though, I’m insecure af and I wish it was different
You're confusing initial interest with a woman's most desirable quality. They're not the same thing, and you can't judge what men want for a long-term relationship based on how much men approach women
It isn't that it is the most attractive quality but that it is the one that is immediately apparent upon first meeting. When I walk by you on the street I can't tell if you have a great sense of humor or are a great cook or wonderful humanitarian.
NO. Because they’re are NANY good looking women but very few that are funny, fun, witty, driven, loyal, selfless etc The rarity of these traits in western women make them more valuable/attractive than beauty.
If you dont know them. Once I start talking to them, they just look different based on my interest in them
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Like with you women and guys, confidence is an attractive quality. It can also make you seem more "approachable" and maybe even make her seem more friendly. It's not all about looks, even though it is what most of us notice first.
"Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" and there are five guys who like what their eyes are beholden, and confidence and carriage are included in that.
Beauty is a combination of things. You be be the most physically attractive/appealing person on the planet, But if the person's personally and habits are super toxic, then they went from a 10 to a 3
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It's a myth that men go on looks alone. Looks will get our attention for sure, but a horrible attitude will turn us off just as quick.
I’m not going to lie, outward appearance is what we first notice in a person, but it is definitely not the most important. Being attractive is a plus but it is not everything. There is more to a person than just the physical beauty.
No it isn't though of course it will get you more attention initially
I don’t understand why men like confidence in a woman. I think it can turn into arrogance. I guess that’s why I’m still single. I’m not confident to say and walk with an attitude ‘here I am’
From what I’ve seen men hate confident women lol and go for insecure women because they themselves are insecure. And there’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance, they aren’t the same thing. I’m neither though, I’m insecure af and I wish it was different
There's a big difference in confidence and arrogance.
Nah beauty fades...
Intelligence & confidence is hotter.
Nope not at all. Her confidence, personality, compassion and career orientation matter much more. :)
You're confusing initial interest with a woman's most desirable quality. They're not the same thing, and you can't judge what men want for a long-term relationship based on how much men approach women
It isn't that it is the most attractive quality but that it is the one that is immediately apparent upon first meeting. When I walk by you on the street I can't tell if you have a great sense of humor or are a great cook or wonderful humanitarian.
NO. Because they’re are NANY good looking women but very few that are funny, fun, witty, driven, loyal, selfless etc
The rarity of these traits in western women make them more valuable/attractive than beauty.
Nah confidence is much hotter tbh. As long as she looks decent, looks aren't that big of an issue
If you dont know them. Once I start talking to them, they just look different based on my interest in them
Like with you women and guys, confidence is an attractive quality. It can also make you seem more "approachable" and maybe even make her seem more friendly. It's not all about looks, even though it is what most of us notice first.
"Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" and there are five guys who like what their eyes are beholden, and confidence and carriage are included in that.
Initially yes, before spending some time together.
And if you look too good then it wouldn't make too much sense for you to be single, in a lot of guys eyes.
no Beauty ain't everything, cuz when you are yourself it shines through
Yes confidence helps but even at your ugliest you were probably still better than average.
no, her personality, how she treats others, her family, friends.
Beauty fades over time, so then what are you left with?
No had to do with confidence and the way she carries herself.
Beauty is a combination of things. You be be the most physically attractive/appealing person on the planet, But if the person's personally and habits are super toxic, then they went from a 10 to a 3
From a purely sexual point of view yes youth and beauty are the most important attributes for women.