What's a unique or unexpected way you've found to enhance intimacy?

[HawkPerception]

[OlderAndWiser]

On a first dinner date, a lady will almost always refuse a dessert, even though she wants that triple-chocolate-whatever. So I say that I'd like a dessert but not a whole one and I ask if she would share one with me. I ask her what she likes on the dessert menu, it's almost always whatever contains the most chocolate, and I order that with two spoons or forks.

Sharing the dessert requires that we sit closer together, and sharing food with an almost-stranger is something people rarely do, so it gives us some little added sense of closeness. . . and she gets her chocolate. It's a win-win.

[HawkPerception]

Classy take

[HawkPerception]

Just as I'd expect from you

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for the kind words and MHO!

[MicahRaine]

Not going to straight to sex/making sure that sex is not the priority.

Don't get me wrong, sex is great, we love it, and our sex-life isn't at all lacking.

That said, it's nice sometimes to just not have sex and control our urges so that we can keep cuddling and chatting about whatever it the other person is intrigued by in that moment. It's a great way to show how our emotional love for each other affects our physical love for each other in a good way. And then once sex does happen, it happens because we both want it.

[HawkPerception]

You've won the real lottery friend

[MicahRaine]

Yessir I have.

I'm not financially rich, but I'm in in ways that are much more important and fulfilling.

[DishLady]

Just be honest. (Ooooh! Aaaaah!)

[HawkPerception]

So unexpected 😂

[Marathonmama]

Something me and my husband do is send each other texts saying specifically what we want in the bedroom the night. Recently he has started picking out my undies oooohhlala and I’ll send him pics of me in them throughout the day by the time he gets home he’s usually ready to pop lol

[Billlewis]

If I may ask, would it be alright to begin a discussion about the most magnificent man in the world? I'm sure I'm not the only person here that, after hearing about your husband constantly -- and that's not to suggest I'd ever want to stop talking about him, bragging about how incredible the sex is, etc, but if you're going to keep telling us what an awesome stud he is (which I'm sure everyone knows, because if he weren't, he obviously wouldn't be married to such a maddeningly enticing Goddess like yourself. If Beyoncé, J Lo and Sofia Vergars have stud husbands or boyfriends, then we know you do, as well. I'm fascinated to hear more about him, since he's married to the hottest woman on the planet... lol

[RavVid]

Is this just date ideas? I have recently found talking with lips touching to be quite sensuous and intimate with the lip to lip movement being like light kissing. You are not going to have hour long conversations or even 10 minute ones but it certainly increases the intimacy.

[HungTexan]

We play lots of sexual games, engage in fantasies, go to sex clubs/parties, and anything to keep it fresh and exciting!

[DrPepper12]

We got a dare book once. Body paints. Whipped cream. Mines just so conservative and vanilla so it's tough.

[thearchjoker]

Being open about our kinks and tiring many of em out

[DizzyDesii]

Sex dice

[HawkPerception]

You really love those sex dice 🤣

[DizzyDesii]

Lol they only came i handy for a night haha

[OfMiceandMen]

A good ole fashioned strip poker game.

[Ladsin2]

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