Should I let a casual friendly smile I made to a black guy go further?

[michelle4u]

So, I was waiting on this well dressed black man, me 32f white, he is like 50ish and black but well dressed and nice mannered. I delivered his lunch to him and i noticed he was checking me out with a smile on his face so i smiled back.

He already asked if i am single and available? I feel like I am weak around such guys. I want to get to know him but i know where it will lead, I think. I hate to admit that i like his attention. Why do i try to deny that I want some attention?

[Finchie40]

Nothing wrong with wanting attention , especially if you haven’t been dating or seeing anyone in a long time. So sometimes you just have to go for it and not hold yourself back , live for the moment , don’t really think about the future , we aren’t psychics , if you like this guy and he likes you back Go for it , you don’t have to have sex with him right away if you don’t want to , just make it clear to him you are interested and you like him , if he likes you he will prove it to you by making you his priority , wanting to talk to you and spend time with you as much as possible , Don’t really worry about his intentions on whether he just wants sex with you or wants more than sex with you. If it’s meant to be , it will be meant to be , if not , oh well at least you got laid lol

[michelle4u]

I like your style. :)

[Finchie40]

Sadly with all my experiences and things I have witnessed through the years with relationships , pretty much molded me to how I am today. I know I am not perfect but I know I am not going to tolerate someone trying to take advantage of me or use me , I just give what I want to receive in return , I can’t read minds , I don’t know what someone’s true intentions are , I just go for it hoping she is really on the same page as me. Hoping she comes back for more and. more , I am a very loyal guy when it comes to relationships, whether she chooses to do the same , that’s up to her , I can’t force her to want to stay with me , I can just treat her the way I want to be treated in return. Love only comes when 2 people choose each other over everyone else in this world , making each other your top priority , wearing each others’ shoes before making decisions. A relationship will only survive if both people can to that for each other , we all have selfishness in ourselves , if you can’t remove that selfishness for your partner , don’t expect them to remove it for you. It needs to go both ways. So just treat this guy the same way you want to be treated in return , if he likes you he will more than likely stand by your side , if he doesn’t’ let him go and realize you deserve someone that won’t walk away from you. People do not walk away from people they claim to love period

[Finchie40]

Only the ones that like the connivence of you , walk away

[michelle4u]

I totally get the disappointments and rejections that our beyond our control.

[Finchie40]

Yea that’s exactly it , beyond our control , but it’s the chances we take when meeting someone new

[ManOnFire]

I think if you're comfortable with him and like his attention, then give him the time of day and see where it goes. But warning: I imagine that such a quick interest will just become a hookup and probably no solid relationship.

[michelle4u]

I have been in need for a month or so, I am willing to take my chances.

[texascollegegirl]

100 percent highly recommend. Maybe you also have a preference for the thing Black guys are known for. Or maybe you do and don't know it. Let things happen and then you'll know more.

[michelle4u]

You are the sweetest temptress. I have that preference for those thingys you mentioned. It lights an inner spark in me that I can't put out, and my job as a waitress keeps me on a collision course with my most naughty desires.

[texascollegegirl]

Then you should do it and earn you need it on the regular, especially the ones who have the size

[michelle4u]

I've developed an electric itchy spot just listening to you.

[SweetJoyGirl]

You seem to have a thing for black guys, because you mentioned them in your last question.

Just be yourself. If it is meant to go further, it will without a doubt.

[Summeroflove]

Well. If you want a date ask for one but don’t wait too long because there’s probably other women who are into him. He’s got options you know

[michelle4u]

Yes, thank you for that point.

[michelle4u]

yes, you're right about that.

[noohair]

Everyone likes positive attention. And he sees you as an easy mark.

[michelle4u]

It's a good feeling for me.

[michelle4u]

The tips are good, so I will keep smiling..

[lorenzomichael]

do what you like. It shouldn’t matter if he’s black, white, Chinese, Mexican, Egyptian or a a little person or tall as fuck be with whoever you like fuck everybody else.

[RavVid]

Older black guys can look highly distinguished.

If you are single why not.

[Texaskid1]

I dedicate this song to you:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/X5VqvkUd_MU

[Anonymous]

everybody loves attention from time to time if you're single there's nothing wrong with it. It depends on how you feel about him and just be very casual and make sure it doesn't go farther than you want it to be

[Anonymous]

Why does it matter that he was black? You wouldn't let a smile with a white guy or an Hispanic guy go further?

[MasterKS]

Be confident, the more you be expressive you will get mor e fun!

[LiamJHayden]

Do what you want. How does his race play into it at all?

[Anonymous]

It will lead to his dick in your ass. If you're good with that, then go for it.

[Maybeyoutoo]

Of course ⚫❤️⚪

[zombiewoof]

Follow your instincts

[scott04sa22]

Go for it

[Tstrbrainer]

Lucky dude I guess