Girls, Gals what's the most attractive trait in a man?

[Paradox316]

I need to know what I need to improve about myself before I put myself out there and invest time energy and money into it.

Looks.

Being a provider/protector

Common interests/personality traits

Being fun/interesting

Other. (Please explain in comments.

Muscularity/Physical fitness.

Intelligence/Imagination/Willpower/Work ethic.

[Smashingdoozy]

There is no one thing, it's the combination of the things. Kindness, purpose, passion, intelligence, humourous...

[Paradox316]

Indeed now that I think about it you're view is the closest to the truth Smashingdoozy. I must self improve or else I am guaranteed to fail; however even if I do fail even after self improving I will meditate on the teachings of the Ancient Greek philosopher Epicurus (Timeless teachings) to learn to be happy without a long term relationship and maybe settle for short term ones, or even be happy without romance at all. Wish me luck Smashingdoozy and Nicki1989 you have helped me more than you will ever know. You two should consider studying philosophy in your free time. Live long and prosper.

[Nikki1989]

Common interests, personality, charm, kindness, good manners, open-mindedness, and sense of humour can go a long way too.

[Paradox316]

This has interesting implications for me because I am definitely not blessed in the looks department, (it's definitely possible to improve in that area to a certain extent), and I think it's even more plausible to improve on the qualities you mentioned Nikki1989. No matter what I have to self improve if I want any chance of being successful in dating.