WWhy he keeps me out of his social media?

[Anonymous]

This guy and I had great chemistry when we met. We made out a lot but we didn't go all the way the day we met. He asked me to add him on facebook and then I found out he was dating another girl (I believe they're on again off again kinda thing). He kept asking me to go see him where he lives, but I told him I couldn't since he had a girlfriend. Months later he told me they weren't together anymore, which was true. So we met again and we ended up having sex. He always begs me to come see him. But why he blocked me to see his pictures on facebook and instagram? He has plenty of random hot girls that are not blocked but I am. He doesn't need to hide anything from me since we're just casual.

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Can anyone help me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh, this guy just sounds shady and immature man. Blocking you on social media after messing around is super sketchy.

A few possibilities:

- He's still kinda involved with that other girl and doesn't want her to see stuff with you. Even if they're on-off.

- Or he just wants to casually hook up with you and keep you a secret from his friends/followers cause it's "no strings attached" or whatever.

- Could be talking to other girls too and doesn't want y'all comparing notes on him online.

End of the day, who cares why - you shouldn't be anyone's secret! You deserve way better than that. This dude obviously isn't looking for anything real.

I'd say stop dropping everything to hook up with him cause it's not gonna go anywhere good. Find a guy who's actually proud to be with you publicly, ya know? You'll meet WAY better dudes, I promise.

[GlitteringWorld]

It seems like you’ve fallen into the trap of a typical player. From the start, his intentions likely weren’t genuine, and once he realized you might catch on, especially with his flirty behavior in the comments section, he decided to block you. This is often a tactic used by people who want to keep their options open without getting caught. By blocking you, he's trying to avoid any confrontation or the possibility of you discovering his true behavior. It's a way for him to keep his secrets hidden while continuing to play the field. Unfortunately, it’s a common move among people who aren’t serious about forming a real connection and are just out to enjoy the attention or the thrill of the chase.