Is it a red flag or weird a 19 year old girl never had a boyfriend and never kiss a guy?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

Nope there's nothing weird about that at all and there's no red flags it's called respect there's a reason for it and whatever that reason is it's her business nobody else's I would definitely like to know what the reason is because I bet you it's probably a pretty good one

[Asker]

My mom stuck on my virginity

[Asker]

And no guys want me

[ohsheeT]

What do you mean your mom stuck on it she just tries to protect you you mean..

And I bet you there are guys that want you you just don't put yourself in a position to hear about it maybe

[ohsheeT]

So what are your thoughts about it I mean when you're laying in bed at night what do you think of you can DM me if you would like to it's probably better than putting a bunch of words out there LOL but only if you want to I would love to chat with you

[Asker]

I’ll dm you

[Asker]

It wouldn’t let me message you because it say You have to be Xper Level 2+ to send messages

[Asker]

My thoughts on it I think it’s terrible

[ohsheeT]

... Ok

[Asker]

Nope she act like if I have sex she’ll snap.

[Asker]

And she never acted like this with my older sister

[ohsheeT]

Well somewhere somehow she's trying to protect you maybe because she knows how she was or something I don't know and I mean it could be for a lot of different other reasons too that aren't even that good of a reason but maybe she just doesn't want to see you pregnant I don't know

[ohsheeT]

Is your mom lonely I mean does she go out with guys or anything if you're the last kid in the family maybe she's trying to protect you for all the wrong reasons she's trying to keep you away from guys so you don't leave her maybe

[ohsheeT]

Did you DM me. I almost couldn't find this question I could almost find you again that's what's going to happen

[Asker]

She is single

[Asker]

Nope it’s a control thing because she claims all the women in our family are sluts expect for her.

[ohsheeT]

Yeah so that's something you're going to have to be careful of because she's going to want to also keep you there because she's going to need somebody to control or to manipulate and that really does kind of suck

[ohsheeT]

Is it hard for you to live there knowing that you can't really be yourself or say what you feel

[ohsheeT]

Here's the thing that's really sad about the whole thing is of what she's doing is driving you to the person that she's portraying you as being instead of just teaching you something she's creating because it's just going to make you want something even more

[ohsheeT]

. Well if I do add to add you I would

[ohsheeT]

... We should both find the same question and answer it and I can find you on that page and then I can add you

[ohsheeT]

Or you can go to the last question that I asked and answer it and I can find you there and I can add you

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong w that. In my days, I’m sure even before that, that was normal. Don’t feel like you have to be like a lot of women these days. In all honesty that just makes you more valuable for a real relationship ship. Now if you’re in your late 20s, still never had a relationship, still a virgin ok might be something to worry about.

[natured]

WHAT? Are you nuts? of course it's not a red flag... why do you teenagers think that it's okay to be kissed and mingled at the age of FETUS...
Calm down, i had my first boyfriend when i was 22 lol

[Inafishbowl99]

and realises that there is more to this life than kissing multiple guys.

Girls got class if you ask me.

[HawkPerception]

Definitely not a red flag and definitely not weird. The longer a girl holds out for guys, the more attractive she is for most guys.

The vast majority of men prefer women that have less experience than more.

[Summeroflove]

Nah just save it for the right person

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nope, I think the hate for purity is pretty destructive, it's one thing to not care and completely different to being against it and I don't see any harm in it for anyone to have a valid reason to be against it, I think the proper response to this is good for you.

[lightbulb27]

not even a frog?

No, that's fine, not weird. Everyong is on a diff cycle. Our hormonal cycles are jacked up due to poisoned environment... gets hormones turn on now as early as 10yrs old. That's too young, some kids are mating at 12-13, others don't start til 25.

be glad you aren't one of the ones with a baby at 13.

But do go on about working on yuorself, socializing, growing, and living life.

[Apple1996]

Nah 19 is still very young. You have lots of time to find a boyfriend and have your first kiss

[Asker]

I’m a virgin too

[DrPepper12]

Is it by choice? It's kinda odd from my perspective but the 80s were another time and place. No one graduated HS a virgin.

[Asker]

It’s not a choice

[DrPepper12]

Are you going to college? Away from home?

[Asker]

I’m going to college it’s close to me

[Berethor]

You still young, virgin girls who never kissed tend to be the best, as they clearly not hos.

[John_Cobretti]

Not at all, better than a bodycount of 50 at 19

[Maybeyoutoo]

No. Virginity and morality are important, sist.✝️✝️✝️

[Asker]

Not to me

[Asker]

Virginity isn’t important to me

[Maybeyoutoo]

Why?

[Asker]

Because it’s not a big deal to me

[Anonymous]

It's fine, make sure you have sex by the time you're 30. Guys too.

[Anonymous]

Well, you're ok, you still have time. I'm much older, and I never had a girlfriend, I also never had a kiss.

[SlayerCrazy]

I'm 21 and I've never had a boyfriend or a kiss lol.

[morganherrel]

The age 20-30 dating market is yours to win, @slayercrazyazy
That's when the vast majority of women stop trying and gain weight
Just by maintaining a decent figure, you climb ahead of all of them, and you will find that man (:

[SlayerCrazy]

@morganherrel I've only found men who wanted to hookup. I don't know if I like men romantically or not.

[morganherrel]

@slayercrazy fair enough!

[Anonymous]

And I'm sure it'll happen for you at least by your mid-20s

[Fireguy17]

nope, not in the least.

[thearchjoker]

At 19 its fine if your 30 not as much

[morganherrel]

Totally normal *eyeroll*

[Asker]

No need for eyeroll

[Asker]

I literally get judge and questioned why I have a boyfriend

[morganherrel]

it was lighthearted with a smile; I don't mean to make fun of you (:
let me ask you: why haven't you had a boyfriend?

[Asker]

Guy don’t want me and my mom is obsessed with my virginity

[morganherrel]

Then you answered your own question! And those two things are not red flags at all!

by the way, assuming the cultural poison in the dating market persists for a few more years, such as body positivity movement, I think you will have an easy time finding a guy in the next few years

Just be one of the only women who's actually in good shape (:

[power_wolf]

a little odd but not too bad

[Asker]

How is it odd?

[power_wolf]

I mean I had my first kiss at like 11 or 12 so 19 seems old to me

[Asker]

I meant being a virgin at 19

[power_wolf]

I think the average age for losing V is around 17 so you're a little late but it's not that bad

[Asker]

There is no hope for me

[power_wolf]

why not?

[Asker]

Because my mom is stuck on my virginity

[Asker]

So I’ll never get to experience stuff what normal people do

[power_wolf]

just get married young then, or don't listen to your mom

[Asker]

No guys want me

[power_wolf]

what would you rate yourself out of 10?

[Asker]

4 or less

[power_wolf]

that sucks. work hard in school, get a good job and get plastic surgery

[Asker]

Plastic surgery too expensive

[power_wolf]

that's why you need a good job

[Asker]

Yeah I know I have 2 jobs right now

[morganherrel]

Literally just be slim... that's all you have to do, and it's not hard
You will get your man, trust me

[DextroShade]

Not yet, it will be when you're 25.

[EnjoytheDay777]

It's fine. 19 is still pretty young

[Jmmmfi4]

FUCK... I WAS 23

[Asker]

Oh 🙃

[Anonymous]

😆 she's 19 not 39. 19 ain't that old.

[slatyb]

It isn't.

[ProbablyClueless]

No, not usually.

[FunkyMonkee]

No, it happens.

[jahaims]

Nope

[noohair]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

No not weird at all