How Do Men separate Romantic Attraction From Sexual Attraction?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

We don’t , we pretend to , some are better than others’ at doing so. Most of you females’ don’t realize how important intimacy and affection is to most of us men. intimacy and affection is our way of being closer to a girl , that’s our way of expressing our feelings to her , especially to a girl that we really like and want to be closer to. Whether he is just using her for sex or he wants more than just sex with her. Intimacy and affection is important to most of us men Only you girls’ can figure out whether he is in it for the long haul or short haul? , A guy isn’t going to have sex with a girl that he finds disgusting or unattractive , unless he is desperate as all hell and just wants to get off. Me personally can’t have sex with a girl I am not attracted to whatsoever , I tried once before and it was a failed attempt to even try because my penis wouldn’t work whatsoever. so she was shit out of luck even though she was throwing herself at me wanting me , I thought the beers would work but I was wrong. lol. So I no longer waste my time on girls’ that I find unattractive , I rather jerk off then stick my dick into an ugly girl. So I only have sex with girls’ that I am attracted to , that I want to be closer to , hoping she keeps coming back for more and more.

[Anonymous]

There isn't a lot of separation. Women need to understand. It's like chocolate chip cookies. If you told a woman she could have a limitless supply of chocolate chip cookies but NEVER get fat, she'd never stop eating them. Unfortunately this is not reality. So a woman typically watches what she eats. Well, sex is like chocolate chip cookies for men. A woman generally can have sex whenever she wants, a guy cannot. Ergo a higher premium is placed on sex for a guy. It SHOULDN'T be, but a guy derives a lot of self confidence in a woman's love and desire of him when she has sex with him. This why so many women restrict this from men. She doesn't want to give him too much power. And with the disintegration of msle-female interaction, sex has just become more of a weapon over the years. Now for both genders. a lot of guy want to sleep with women than kick them to the curb just to show them I took your one weapon you had over me. Now you have nothing. And on the flipside women just like to use thier sexual attraction to bait and taunt men till they realize this is her entire game. She has no interest in him whatsoever beyond trying to make a fool of him.

[Nikki1989]

Immature men always seek sexual attraction first.

[Berethor]

It easier when you don't care much about romance, that's why chick flicks are for women.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chick_flick

[LiamJHayden]

Well, since I turned 21 I can have romantic attraction without sexual attraction, but I do not have sexual attraction without romantic attraction. Not sure if that makes sense to you. My initial now is never sexual.

[RebelinSteel]

Yeah, they are different sides to it, you have sexual, emotional and romantic attraction.

[Anonymous]

sexual attraction comes first (looks)

romantic attraction comes later (character)

[noohair]

It is easy for guys. Guys have a caveman part of the brain that drives us to spread DNA.

[Emsabmud]

Romantic: for flesh and blood of someone I know and have conversed with.
Sexual: for pictures and video

Just my approach.

[Anonymous]

One involves the heart a fair bit. The other is all about the dick and balls.

[thearchjoker]

Their two sides of the same coin.

[Walksbehindtherows]

Both are the same thing

[Asker]

You haven't had any one night stands, I assume?

[Walksbehindtherows]

a lot of

[Asker]

Huh? Then what's your deal?

[Walksbehindtherows]

Because I have experience in this area, I know that romantic attraction and sexual attraction are the same thing.

[Asker]

I don't think so 😕

[Dongie]

With many, many years on earth.

[jahaims]

Sexual is physical, romantic is emotional.

[LazerMan]

some do some do not

[Anonymous]

They don't, because there is no difference.