Doing well on Tinder & Co but all girls want is hookups/shortterm?

[Anonymous]

I reached the point were I kinda just want to settle down. I been single since 3 years and had long term relationships before. Now it seems like any girl I meet only wants to have sex or friends with benefits but nothing longterm.

The 2 relationships were only for around 3 and the other for 4 months. First one broke up because she said she isn't interested in something longterm (duh) the second one saw that I still had tinder installed (forgott to delete, my fault but never used it) and it just skyrocket there as she was seemingly always been insecure about her looks compared to me and compared herself to my exes or girls I meet before her. didn't matter how much I told her that I like her very much and that I think she's very pretty. She ended up sleeping over by some guy friend and they had sex.

Anyways I am so exhausted now, I try to text everyone I match with but now I am even lacking the motivation and my match to date ratio took a big hit. I dont know what to do anymore.

Its always said that men are only out for sex but it seems like thats old thinking.

[lightbulb27]

look somewhere else, I think tinder is for this purpose as other people seeking relatiohships have been crowded out.

meet people in real life. might have had a chance with the 2nd girl, but she panicked.

wish you luck... I know people finding long term girlfriend wifes... it's possible.

[AviatorTom]

Tinder isn't the greatest place to meet people for relationships, it's built for sex. You might want to try one of the dating sites.

[Anonymous]

That's what Tinder is for. Go to another app if you want to settle down. That's like going to Pizza Hut and saying, I really want burgers, why don't they have any?

[beefcakebradybatson]

The Tinderettes almost SURELY want just hookups/short term !!!

[Radiate143]

Welcome to women's world.

[Radiate143]

Guys kept doing this to us so women are detached now. Oh well

[Anonymous]

Tinder is just a digital brothel