What is he saying?

[Anonymous]

a guy I've had a casual thing with for about 8 years while I was in an on again off again relationship for the middle 5 . I got the guys name tattooed on me, not the boyfriend, and when I told him he told me if he ever got married again it would have to be to someone he was friends with first and he added and your my only friend. We didn't speak for a year and a half and a month ago I get a text from him saying he found the girl he wants to marry but he's got to get a divorce first I tell him congratulations. A week ago he tells me he just dumped the girl he was with for the last year and he wanted to see me when he got off the road, I asked if he remembered what he said when I got his name tattooed on me. Mind you he says very little. He said you know I have head injuries and a lot in my head what did I say. So I quoted word for word what he said. His response was " total confirmation, but I'm full of shit. Just kidding. and he would see me Thursday. Is he playing w me? What game is he playing here

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Him and his wife haven't been together in 10 years that was long before I met him.

[SueShe]

Easy fornication without commitments. That's what men do in general. Sure there are exceptions but they are few and far apart.

Since you seem to be such an easy pray for him and also so gullible and that he is deep into his mid-life crisis, the stories that he creates just for you are nothing more than attempts to get fresh meat when he is out of some.

He is playing you and you are playing his game. He just needs someone to get rid of his testosterone levels and when he is fed up with you, he will move onto his next victim until he had enough of her and contact you again, knowing that you haven't learned anything from your past experiences with him.

[Flower7]

Of course he's playing with you. He's newly single and trying to have your "benefits" again. Don't let yourself believe that this is going anywhere.

Also, it's really shocking that someone would tattoo on themself the name of a friend with benefits. Even doing that in a relationship is a bad idea, much less someone that you're only sleeping with.

[Avicenna]

He just wants easy sex

[Asker]

We been sleeping together for years he knows he doesn't have to bullshit me for sex.

[Asker]

But u may be be right there is more to it like I kept going back to my abusive ex. But he's the only guy I know that as time passes we get along more and both consistently grow more respectful and appreciative of one another. But u could be correct

[Anonymous]

He is playing you by the sounds of this.

[In_Trance]

Wants to smash