Girls, Would you be less inclined to try in the relationship if you didn’t respect the guy?

[Anonymous]

I ask because throughout the relationship where I would either call her babe or her name she would call me bitch or nuisance

[Nikki1989]

Depends. Some men deserve what they get. I am condoning the behavior, but some men should be able to see it coming.

[Asker]

You couldn’t see it with her because she would pretend to be nice

[Anonymous]

Sure free attention and play toy! It's fun enjoying a bitch boy when I can dump him for someone better any time!

[Asker]

So why would she treat a guy who treated her good like this, other guys she dated were abusive this is what I don’t understand about dating. You don’t feed into the toxicity of her previous life and your suddenly weak

[Opinion Owner]

She treats all guys like this good or bad! Honestly yes not being toxic is weeks to her

[Asker]

Yeah I went into the relationship with a serious mindset that it would develop into something meaningful

[Opinion Owner]

Was never going to she decided it was something to toy with

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be with a guy i didn't respect.

[Opinion Owner]

I lied. You're right. It's true we would be less inclined to try

[Asker]

So I guess then why would she stay in this relationship for 2 years. And did she not respect me because I didn’t bring chaos to her life the way her previous abusive relationship did

[Opinion Owner]

No I highly doubt thats the reason. She's just a bitch who didn't get any healing

[Opinion Owner]

You did nothing wrong!!

[Asker]

So how do I recover from this I’ll be honest this was my first relationship and it scarred me to the point where I’m not sure I could make myself vulnerable to a women like that again

[Opinion Owner]

Bro it's going to take a lot. But honestly... first... you will need counseling.