How come it's okay for an 18-year-old to do onlyfans but not okay for her to date a 30-year-old?

[chris_987]

Seems like women's morals don't apply when money is involved

[BetaBucks]

Women don't really find it immoral, they find it offensive. They don't like guys their age wanting younger women because it's harder for them to compete with the younger girls. It's like how you feel about famous guys. Not that you judge women for wanting them, but the feeling is the same.

[strateguy632]

Because online is a safe distance away from people.

[Anonymous]

Because one the 18yo is totally in charge. The other they can be influenced or taken advantage by someone who's much more experienced and likely more stable in life than them.

[chris_987]

It was a question based on morals. A lot of women think that it's not morally wrong as long as there's money involved. Prostitution and sex work proves that a lot of women base their morals on money. Because it's impossible to believe that you can prostitute yourself to an older man. But when money is not involved that's when there could be an issue. It's just ridiculous.

[Opinion Owner]

If it's a transaction and not a relationship, obviously the older person has far less influence on the younger person because they're only a customer. The younger person can simply refuse service and walk away if they choose. With a relationship you have two people actually committing to each other and letting the other influence them and their life. THAT is where abuse and bad things can happen, when one person has opportunity to take power over someone much younger and naive than themself. It seems like you don't understand the difference between transactional and recreational sex...

[chris_987]

So basically what you're saying is it's better to have someone who sees your relationship as transactional rather than someone that cares about your well-being? I can't even begin to describe how messed up your mind is, but that's how I may think. So I'm not surprised.

[Opinion Owner]

It's not a RELATIONSHIP if it's ONLY A TRANSACTION. Fuck can you read? Do you know what sex work is? Do you know what a relationship is? What are YOU talking about with a relationship where one person thinks it's a real relationship and the other thinks it's only transactional? That just sounds like a liar taking advantage of someone who likes them.

[chris_987]

Money is all you worship so what do you know about a true relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm married for 3 years now. What about you, how's your "true relationship" that makes you think you can lecture ALL women about it?

[chris_987]

The truth is the truth. It's not a lecture if it's facts

[Opinion Owner]

It's not true. Even just my one example proves you wrong. You're just talking out your ass about this

[chris_987]

So you approached your husband and proposed to him?

[Opinion Owner]

We met accidentally, but i did propose yes.
How about you, did you approach and propose to your wife?

[chris_987]

Yes but she said no. And now she has kids with someone else

[Opinion Owner]

Ah sorry it didn't work out.

[chris_987]

Lol I'm sure you are

[Opinion Owner]

What, are you happy when sad things happen to other people? I'm not.

[chris_987]

I never said I was so I don't know why you'd make that assumption

[Opinion Owner]

You act like I'm lying saying sorry. Why would you assume I wouldn't feel bad about a bad thing happening to you, if you would feel bad if a bad thing happened to other people? Same shit.

[chris_987]

Anyways, let's get back to the topic. Or we don't have to

[Opinion Owner]

Sure. Do you agree some women don't just "worship money" and instead want "true relationships"?

[chris_987]

If they want "true relationships" that isn't n't up for them to decide. How would you teach a girl to create a true relationship with a guy?

[Opinion Owner]

I would say be honest, when finding relationships make it clear what you're looking for—and if you don't know then don't pretend to. Don't lead a guy on who you know it won't work out with, and don't pursue a guy who isn't interested in you. You can't control what other people do but you can do your part to make your relationships healthy and built on good foundation. :)

[chris_987]

Ok so she shy and doesn't approach men, what should she do?

[Opinion Owner]

Either learn a way to approach that works for her as shy person, maybe indirectly or something. Or decide a relationship isn't a priority for her enough to put in the effort.

[Nikki1989]

For f**ks sake, the light is on, but no one is home with so many men on here.

[slatyb]

It's ok, but most 30-year-olds who want to date teenagers are bad news -- immature, unable to attract an adult woman.

[chris_987]

So many simps on this site. I guess that's what happens so after I left

[slatyb]

LOL. "Simp" -- the cry of the loser who can't get a date, but it's not his fault.

[Nikki1989]

@slatyb Bingo!

[chris_987]

Oh well, masculinity is gone so I can't save it at this point. I'm sure woman are glad that they've emasculated men to the point where they could no longer think for themselves without fear of losing access to vagina.

[slatyb]

I have known three young women who got involved with 30-ish men. All ended badly for the young women. Two of them married, had a baby, and realized that actually they had two babies. The man was uninterested in the work of raising a family. The third woman realized after some years that her husband was gay.

[chris_987]

Wow so an older man who dates a younger woman is always bad news 100% of the time. If we just follow your advice women will never be hurt by men again.

[slatyb]

I didn't say that. I said that 30-year-olds who pursue teenagers are bad news.

[chris_987]

That's very arbitrary, cause a man at any age can leave a girl because he just wanted sex, that's not exclusive to older men

[slatyb]

Of course it isn't, but the 30-ish men who hit on teenagers do it because women closer to their age see their immaturity and won't date them.

[chris_987]

Wow, no guy would admit that an older woman Is hotter that a younger girl. So who brainwashed you

[slatyb]

Duuuuh. Often they are.

[Ironic_Method]

Believe it or not, the human race isn't some sort of hive kind. Some people think it's fine and others don't. Your blanket statements are weird.

Personally, I think both are fine.

[chris_987]

There not weird if it's worth discussing, stop shaming that's a very feminine trait.

[Anonymous]

I think both are ok. At 18 you’re an adult. You get to make your own mistakes and decisions.

[msc545]

MONEY!!