Accidental boob graze or not - met on dating app?

[ilovetofu]

I am 22 he is 20, we met on hinge and I have not dated before. on our second date we went to my house and had tea and biscuits we talked about suits of armor that we would like then started talking about fencing. He pretended to sketch out on my body where the helmet and chest guard would go and grazed the top of my boobs. after he hugged me his thumb grazed my boob as he was untangling my arms from his back.

Do you think it was intentional or not?

I am new to this

[lightbulb27]

can be accident. you have much to learn, enjoy the process.

fencing... you must be chinese... whom else does fencing anymore? the french?

you have to lay down the rules of engagement... for there is no question as to what dating is... it is learning and coming together.

at least he didn't jab at you with his sword... nor you with yours. never sleigh your date on the first date!

tea and biscuits... yes!!

[ProbablyClueless]

I mean... the first one probably wasn't an accident. The second one probably was.

How do you feel about the situation? In terms of transgressions, it's not the craziest thing I've heard, but it's still not okay to touch a woman's breasts without her permission.

[SweetPi]

It's never an accident! He just gropped you! Ew how scummy!

If it was not a dating app or a date maybes but those boys know what they are doing! He wanted to touch your boobs and he did.

Next time he will be more bold in touching them!

Huge red flag

It's one thing if he said sorry...

[ilovetofu]

ok so next time I see him I should say that I didn't like it and please stop?

[SweetPi]

Yes respect you no db games! You like him but he needs to be patient and if he can't... Byes!

[Avicenna]

Of course it was intentional

[Anonymous]

Maybe. Do you have particularly big boobs? Like to the point that they sometimes seem to get in the way of things? Also, did you notice if he was paying a lot of attention to your boobs?

[ilovetofu]

I have b cups? is that big? he was looking st me a lot but mostly my face

[Opinion Owner]

No--definitely not big. So they weren't getting in the way. If he wasn't looking at them much I'd chalk it up to an accident.

[Anonymous]

The first no but the second possibly

[ilovetofu]

thank you!

[slatyb]

Definitely intentional. Also not nice.

[Anonymous]

How old are you really?

[ilovetofu]

I am 22 I just grew up very sheltered

[Wise4myage]

Accident, unless he does it again.

[RedInnocent69]

Oh, he was definitely feeling you up 😂

[In_Trance]

Of course it's intentional

[Rohaan2020]

I dont think it was intentional