Is this a failed chat on a dating app?

[Anonymous]

after a few back and forth messages

Him: “What are your plans for this fine Saturday?”

her: “I met a friend and went food shopping and now I just got home, want to cook a little and chill with my cat”

him: “Ok. Enjoy the rest of the day and nice chatting. Let me know if you’re up for a brief chat on the phone at some point or just want to meet for a drink next week. 🙂”

Yes he’s screwed it up

Not necessarily, he can send her something the next day

[coachTanthony]

Lock that shit down. Don't ever ask "if you are up for it" Frame it as a question. Are you up for a chat later today? If they say sure. Then you say how does 8pm sound? Never say just let me know. LOCK IT DOWN.

[Jacobbbb]

No it's absolutely okay. You were genuine, told her to enjoy the rest of her day, and even initiated a phone call or a date in a normal way

[Jamie05rhs]

He fucked it up.
She's chilling at home with the cat, dude. What could possibly be a better time to chat?