I am a virgin, please no nasty comment? Its hard subject for me?

[Anonymous]

I am virgin in 40s. I would like to date women. I am too scared cause I am still a virgin. The reason for this was, because I was horrendously shy growing up with girls, couldn't even talk to them or anything.

Now that I have worked myself, and not shy anymore, I can confidently talk to girls and get naked etc. This deeply upsets me that I was this way with women, because there is nothing i would like to meet someone and have a family. I feel my options are limited with high standards nowadays.

My question is what should I do? go for it or women not going to be interested cause of this?

Worst case scenario, forget it and stay single forever.

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1 y

Don't worry about it, don't answer the question.

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1 y

Thanks everyone for their comment. I am sure some girl will accept me, hahah.

[Avicenna]

Not all women have high standards- meet one that you can develop an emotional bond with and with whom there's personal chemistry because she will be willing to overlook you being a virgin.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice.

[Anonymous]

A reminder of how I've always hated nature in reality

[Asker]

haha, I am over it pal, maybe I am just feeling sorry for myself. I will just get an escort to help me, then the problem solved haha.

[Asker]

I used strip clubs to overcome my shyness with women, it worked. So I will just get an escorted to become experienced. There is always solution the problem.

[Opinion Owner]

I've had sex with some escorts and sex workers while not to shed the Virgin label but just to end a long dry spell and gain more sexual experience because before I saw an escort or sex worker I had only experienced sex while doing one position only which was missionary

[Nikki1989]

Sorry, but you only have yourself to blame, but you can easily fix the situation. Remember, life is what you make of it.

[Asker]

True, I just wish I wasn't this way, when I was young. As my uncle said, if you have a problem, find a solution, don't blame, don't complain.

[Iron_Man]

Good for you remain that way until after marriage

[Christopherthegreat]

Confidence dude