No, it wouldn't have any bearing at all if I like a woman.
I am intimate with those I am in a relationship with so I'm not planning on being with her one time and then splitting. Even if she were really awkward at first, I'd be in a relationship with her and she'd get a lot better as time went on.
Guys that are just looking for ONE NIGHT of wild sex I suppose might want someone more experienced to make that one night memorable.
If you are in a long term relationship with someone they are only a virgin that one time. You'll be with them many times as the months and years go by so to me it would be irrelevant with someone you had feelings for and wanted to be with long term.
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Not at all, Mandi
First of all its important to lose your virginity with the right guy or even having the goal to wait until marriage. For me I've been with 2 virgins. The first guy I was a virgin too so it was great learning about sex with him. And we are friends to this day. However the second guy was so awkward about it it wasn't a great experience. My point being is it's better when you're a virgin to be with someone who's also a virgin or has little experience. That way you can learn together and neither one of you has to feel pressure that you won't be good enough. For me by the time I was 20 years old and the experience I had I didn't want to be with a virgin.
ok well i'm a female but i'll leave an answer here anyways because i hear a lot of my male friends talk about this topic!
so from the things i've heard they don't like being around a virgin or having sexual intercourse with a virgin for 3 reasons,
one being the fact that she will get easily attached. two being she will be a 'newbie' at sex (put in less work etc. or have to be taught during the process) and finally three, because they feel responsible for taking your *first time.*
i'm sure it varies with different men but this is the stuff i've heard around me! x
To some people, it is. My current boyfriend explained that he had actively avoided certain girls because they were still virgins and would have done the same to me, despite being super interested in me.
He said it's because he's too old (25) to take someone's virginity and just feels weird about it. I think some guys also may do it to avoid the baggage or emotions that may come with losing one's virginity. Some guys also want a girl that knows what she's doing in bed, instead of just laying there trying to get comfortable with it and figure everything out.
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No, most guys, least the ones on here seem to think its a turn on.
It's most of the times a turn off for me. I wouldn't say major, though.
For some other guys, I think it's a major turn on. For me, it depends how long she lasts in bed. I had all-night virgins and 10 minute ones... I definitely hate the latter, but hey, to each his own.
The thing is, I always craved for a partner with experience (and I will to the end of my life, probably) and I don't know how 90% of my girlfriends were virgin... It's like I'm a fucking virgin magnet or something.
Everybody wants somebody with experience, I think. I even went to the stage I was asking girls point blank if they were virgin. Obviously they thought I'm a douchebag SEARCHING for VIRGIN girls instead... X_X
I didn't reject girls based on their experience. I taught the virgins and I think I did a pretty good job.
I mostly rejected girls based on their nutty behaviour. The thing is, some 50% of the virgin girls out there tend to be nuts. At least this was my case.It’s very confusing for me. I’ve met a few men in my past that don’t want a virgin for one reason or another, yet they’re the same guys who call women sluts for having sexual experiences.
I'm a virgin...
But thats seems to be a turn off for girls in my age range, or slightly older, but I've never been on a date, never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl...
I guess I'm too late for it, or never gonna have the chance to prove myself...Think about this. A scenario. A guy wants to date you. You tell him you are a virgin. He does not like it. Suggest to him you will go and have sex with someone else, so you are no longer a virgin. Then maybe you two can date. Can you imagine his reaction?
Something else. EVERY girl was once a virgin. So there ARE guys that are turned on by virgins!Not, on the contrary i would love to be the first man of a lady, so for me being a virgin girl is actually a big turn on, and males, still nowadays, value being the first man of a lady more than you would think in general. The first time always leaves a mark, wanting to deny it or not.
I'm a girl, I'm also a virgin who asked the same question to one of my guy friends. He told me that to some men it's a turn on because it makes them feel more empowered when they know they are the first to a girl. To some men it's a turn off because they prefer wild fun sex not first time innocent sex.
Idont think so... I'm a proud virgin by choice and I'd be glad to offert it to my man someday.. this will definitely boost his ego.. that he took away my virginity.. i'm hoping to find someone like me but as I get older.. i guess most men gets sexually active...
Some, maybe, but not all. Frankly, I'd rather be with a woman with enough experience to know what she likes and how to achieve it. That doesn't necessitate multiple sexual partners, or any really. If she's bold enough to explore her own body and intimate fantasies, and doesn't mind sharing with me, then that helps me to satisfy her when we're together.
I’m a virgin. In my experience, most men are okay with it. Sometimes they ask why I’m still a virgin out of curiosity. But I’ve also met some guys that don’t like virgins because they are inexperienced.
To some, yes. Some guys don't like the fact that they would have to "train" a virgin or that they may cause them pain. To others, no. Being a virgin, to them, means that you are pure. Some guys get really hot thinking about the fact that he may take that puroty away.
my boyfriend says he prefers virgins because it shows him that the girl isn't one of those "here's my body males, do whatever you want with it whenever you want for however long"
so, i would say no, it's not a turn off... at least to my boyfriend (yes i am a virgin and i asked him this once)I would only date a virgin so it's a turn on. If a girl is not a virgin, that's a turn off. I'm waiting until after the engagement or marriage, and I'm a virgin so I expect a girl to be a virgin.
I would LOVE the opportunity to smash out a virgin... providing she was old enough. I'm horny, not creepy. LOL
its about as important as saying you have never cut your own hair or tried holding your breath.
I can see how it would be a turn off for those unprepared guys, the type that are unprepared and are basically buckets of hormones looking for company and well the other thingI like virgins because I am a virgin so does my opinion really count?
Not exactly. It just depends on what guys want from you.
If they want to just hook up they might be a bit turned off but some will still go through with it. (I highly recommend against that)
If a guy is dating you then not really a turn off.Yes! Don't buy that religious shits of purity to make you more sheep than they are. We want somebody who knows how to pleasure us, no virgin can do that!
No. It just means you value other stuffs more than your own experiences like being true to your faith, or the old age formula of meeting the 'right guy'. Or you are too realistic to know that someday it will happen and there is nothing fancy in losing it.
For a small minority of guys, yes, but most guys like virgins.
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