Guys, Why do men prefer petite, smaller women (don’t sugarcoat it)?

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I mean I hear men or see comments that men prefer petite women and petite is more feminine. Wow that’s very hurtful. I’m 5’9” and I have a pear shaped figure but I’m large built. I’ve tried losing weight to look slimmer because apparently taller women don’t look cute tall and chubby. I always fail at weight loss and people telling me I don’t need to lose because I’m tall and I look good heavier. No I don’t. I’m over 200lbs (228lbs to be exact, I was 205lbs). Most guys won’t even give me the time of day to approach me. When I approach guys (tall, average or short) I get rejected or don’t get dates. I NEVER get dates that last long. My coworkers I work with (all three under 5’5: 5’2, 5’1 and 4’10”) either have boyfriends/husbands or dating. Me, NOPE! Im still single!
I thought guys liked BBW!
5’9” 228lbs and a size 18W/20W. Sick of these petite women getting all the men’s attention, even chubby short women or average height.

I WILL NEVER EVER BE PETITE! That’s why I wish I was petite because men like them more than us tall women.
Yeaterday, I saw this cute guy and he was flirting or hitting on a petite women and when he say me, he walked walked right passed me. Of course he would prefer petite! Never understood why petite women wanna be taller.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Okay first thing stop trying to diet because all you do is screw up your body eat healthier foods stay away from sugar all the way away from sugar if you possibly can

If you want to slim down do it by the intake of the right foods more fruits and vegetables no sugar man-made sugar anyway and juices or drinks and few were to walk 30 minutes a day for 30 days at a very fast pace I guarantee it you'll see a difference within two weeks and within 30 days you will see a major difference 30 minutes a day that's all it takes how bad do you want to tone yourself it will also drop the weight you can almost eat anything you want as long as it's good for you

As human beings we need mineral we need dirt we need to minerals that feed our body the right foods have the right minerals in them the right vegetables the right fruits but anything man-made is bad for you

There's nothing wrong with 5'7''. And short girls want to be taller because they want to be a model or most girls do anyway

Okay so you are probably about the hundredth girl now that is kind of asked this question and that I have answered and I've always said try it just try it 30 days and not one of them has ever tried it

cuz I always say let me know if you're going to commit and do it because I'm curious I want to prove it to somebody that says they want to lose weight or tone up and it actually works

The other thing is is make sure you're drinking good water not bottled water bottled water is the worst thing in the world for you and tap water almost as bad get a purifier either that or put it big container of water out in the sun so it grabs itself out and it becomes a negative charge that's why our bodies need is negative charged water the sun will do that out of the tap we're drinking positive charged water it's not good for you plus it's dirty filthy

Here's the other thing if you do decide to walk at a fast pace for 30 days breathe in through your nose and out through your nose only because that way your body's getting pure oxygen instead of just air through your mouth that will make your metabolism burn even faster plus it will give you clarity like you do not believe you will start seeing things even different and better in life

Squatting_Slav · Accepted Answer

Are these guys just dumb? Lmao A lot of of us love taller women. I certainly do, tall and curvy are my type

Summeroflove · Answer

It depends on the man I will say people are allowed to have preferences and standards that includes you. Not everyone is meant to be and everyone men as well as women are looking for something different.

I will say the people who are just being hurtful are absolutely miserable people who cannot ever find someone even a quarter of the way decent. They feel rejected (because they’re bad people nobody decent with self respect wants). Don’t get me wrong either people will say things that are mean no matter who or what you are. That’s the way it is…

Focus on quality of attention rather then quantity. A lot of people sure are getting into relationships fast but how well do those relationships end? Find someone who genuinely loves you and don’t just go with any person either. It should be genuine for both sides. Building sometjinf real takes time.

Avicenna · Answer

Some men prefer to date women your height.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

You are basically (best way to put it) are normal sized, which shouldn't be an issue but just like with many other things, there's guys that like short girls, just cause guys are attracted to short girls doesn't mean normal sized women are deal breakers, it also doesn't mean it makes you any less feminine but shortness is for the most part attached to femininity like anger or aggression for some can be attached to masculinity, doesn't make a man less masculine if they dont show any forms of aggression but to some it can create that illusion, it's why there's the saying nice guys finish last.

Anonymous · Answer

So basically what you want is us to answer what you've already decided IS.

What would be the point?

Anything we say would fall on deaf ears.

Don't sugarcoat it? So don't tell you it likely has nothing to do with your weight and EVERYTHING to do with you being fat. Yeah I said it! The last woman I was attracted to was 5'11" 225lbs. And hotter than hell. She was also a good person to boot. You don't sound like a very good person. All I'm hearing from you is me, me, me.

I could care less about a woman's height. Why does the majority of the women I date happen to be under 5'5". Because the majority of the women that approach me are under 5'5". You miss 100% of the shots you don't take hun.

NathanDavis · Answer

to me is not a preference... I did love it as much, my ex who was around 5'2" and as much as it was with another ex who was around 5'8"

I even met girls who were 5'9" to 6ft as well

to me, there's other priorities first, not height

Makeushiver · Answer

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Graptemys79 · Answer

It seems like women want to be whatever they are not. Short women want to be tall, and busty women want to be smaller. Blondes want to be brunette, and brunettes want to be blonde. Tall women want to be short, and curvy women want to be slimmer while skinny women want to be curvier. Is it just me or is this true?

Berethor · Answer

You already know why men prefer petite women, I don't really need to say that to you.

Anonymous · Answer

Usually yes we like petite women, someone your height usually looks good if they are an hourglass shape or very slim with long legs. It’s probably going to take a lot of work for you to lose the weight with a good diet and workout but you’ll get noticed once you do

Anonymous · Answer

I think it depends on the guy and what his preference is. It’s the same way for us guys too - (not necessarily weight but height or hair color, etc) There are definitely guys who like bigger women and will approach you and only you and they will not go after the petite ones.

genericname85 · Answer

cause if she's smaller, she's lighter and it's easier to manhandle a light person in bed than a heavy person.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Many guys like a girl who is healthy. Have you tried hitting on overweight guys?

renodnol32 · Answer

I prefer taller women. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Anonymous · Answer

For the same reason women prefer tall, well built men.

Intheclouds00 · Answer

Not all of us do.

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