Why are white men like this?

[Anonymous]

I have been talking to a guy for about 4 months, he’s incredibly respectful, he takes me out and treats me well, I have started developing very deep feelings for him too. It hasn’t just been your run of the mill thing, I have shared moments with him I’ve never shared with another man, and I’ve only known him for 4 months. recently it’s come out that I dated a black guy a few years back, we were actually taking about his crazy ex and their crazy stories, so I told one and I think I mentioned my exs name, and he said “what was that name again” it was a very clearly African American name, he asked a bunch of scattered questions regarding it the rest of the night, didn’t seem bothered at all, we cuddled and watched movies, when I woke up today I went to text him and my chat bubbles are now green (meaning he blocked me) I cannot find a trace of him on any social media platforms so I’m assuming he blocked me on all of those as well. I’ve heard that white men typically don’t like hearing when you date black men, but I felt so close to him, and we’ve shared so many things with eachother, some of them worse than this, and it’s all been fine, is there any way to get him to talk to me? Or anything I can say? He literally just gave me a kiss last night and left and I haven’t heard from him and can’t contact him so I’m freaking out.

[texascollegegirl]

They are very insecure about the big Black dick and how badly they compare. It's funny because not all Blacks have really big dicks. Yes, a lot more Blacks have really big dicks and all the biggest dicks are Black, but it doesn't mean your ex had that and it doesn't mean you are hooked on it.

Still, the fact that different white guys are like this might not be an accident. Maybe there is something in you that causes you to run into these guys, something subconscious, or maybe fate. I know I'm totally addicted to casual sex with big dick Blacks, and I'm not lookig for a relationship with one because I already have a boyfriend. I guess I'm biased because I run around on my boyfriend to get it. Still, maybe this is in you and maybe that's the kind of thing you should go back to. There is some truth to once you go Black, you don't go back (excepting keepiing boyfriends we run around on sometimes).

[Nikki1989]

You mean "some" white men, right?

[Asker]

for you maybe.

[Asker]

But yes, I guess every man I been with is considered some in the grand scheme

[Asker]

Thing is I don’t pick a specific kind of man, I’m not searching for specific looks or anything, they’re all quite different but seem to share this hatred for the idea that i dated a black guy, I don’t see the big deal about it

[Billlewis]

As a Caucasian simp who has dated/served Black women exclusively for more than twenty years, I'm actually much more jealous when my mistress has sex with another white guy, because I expect a good looking brother to be able to score with a hot chick, but when it's a PSM (pale stale male), that's surprising to me.

[Asker]

No need to use derogatory terms to define white people, that’s no different from what they do.

[Billlewis]

But I am one. That should give me a little wiggle room, right?

[Asker]

You don’t need wiggle room you can speak however you want.

[lightbulb27]

very traumatic...

if only way is by phone, don't know.

might be cringe to him...

It may be he knows of teh other guy?

[Avicenna]

I don’t think most are like that

[NathanDavis]

"why was this ONE guy like this?"

would be a more accurate thing to ask, lol

[Asker]

He’s actually the only one who didn’t belittle me or talk down to me for it, 2 other men I’ve been with also had a massive issue with it. One told me I am “blacked” so 3 men out of maybe 6 I’ve interacted with, plus I have only started “dating” the more recent guy I’m talking to who blocked me, they somehow always find out and want nothing to do with me after so I wouldn’t say it’s just him, I wouldn’t title my question as such unless it’s been a recurring thing. I guess I just have to not say anything? But then I worry about it coming out down the line, and being an even bigger issue.

[NathanDavis]

so yes... that's just three inadequate and immature douchebags you've met...

so, the other three are more decent no? that still sounds like a decent rate

[Asker]

no the other 3 just wanted sex

[NathanDavis]

maybe it's time for you to get a bit more selective...

[NathanDavis]

where do you keep finding these "gems? lol

[Asker]

Thing is, there’s no way of telling! I have no real type these men aren’t too similar. You only find out if they flat out tell you or, block you after making you nearly fall in love with them.

[Asker]

The first 1 I met at church believe it or not, the 2nd guy I met at disneyworld, and this most recent guy, who I have strong feelings for is my dad’s best friends son.

[NathanDavis]

I mean, are you finding them online? in person? dating apps?

[Asker]

Every man I’ve ever met was in person.

[NathanDavis]

how well have you met these men, before you go out with them... or give them your personal number?

maybe you're doing it too soon?

[Asker]

The most recent guy I’ve known for around 12 years, we’ve been somewhat romantic for 4 months or so, and my dad loves him, my dad also doesn’t know I dated a black guy, and I’m sure he would be extremely displeased with that based off the way he speaks about them. The other 2 guys I talked to for a few months.

[NathanDavis]

maybe start dating people from a different background or area...

the good thing is, you're dodging bullets here, left and right

[Benlovegs]

Sounds like an idiot to me , why does it matter what race or religion your ex is? We are all humans and have blood, flesh and a heart. You don’t need someone like that in your life that’s pure racism and ignorance to me

[Anonymous]

It's because you were contaminated with a black guy. He feels you are ruined now.

[BarryLiverstone]

Are you feeing freaked out?

[Asker]

Yeah, I have no real way of contacting him to see what’s going on. Or if I can fix it.

[BarryLiverstone]

Hmm, after 4 months that really doesn’t seem logical. And if you can’t call him or meet up you don’t know what’s on his mind. Did you go to his house recently?

[BarryLiverstone]

You think he may feel insecure?

[Asker]

Yes. That it disgusted.

[Asker]

Or**

[BarryLiverstone]

Why disgusted?

[Anonymous]

This is not normal white man behavior.