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Wow. a lot of calls of racism. I don't think that word means what you people think it means. She's just asking a question about what she's observed. If you're white, a male, and don't and like that, just say, "I don't know. I'm white, but I don't sit like that." Here, watch:
My stepbrother, he's white, adds I don't think life ever seen him sit like that. Oddly, one of my old bosses who was black, all business-like, sat like that in meetings.
See? No racism. Only observations. Get over yourselves, folks.
I've come to realise that this is no longer predominantly just a woman's way of sitting.
I do a variation of that. It’s not like the pic. For me, the top leg kinda goes straight across the bottom one. I don't know if you understand. Lol I suck at describing it
😁🙂
Thank you!🤪😁
I would be offended if I didn’t do it myself
Meh it’s comfortable
Eh it doesn't really squeeze that much, contrary to popular beliefs
@AlyssaHannahD oh lol, I always wondered
They slide under
Yeah it's really nothing painful about it, although I prefer not using it as I don't want to be remembered of still having that anatomy
@AlyssaHannahD lol okay
Thank you
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Thank you for saying this! That is totally me! I can't explain why that is me but it is! I am honestly more comfortable that way! I always thought to myself why am I crossing my legs, don't only girls do that... But honestly I find my self crossing my legs in a yoga pose crossing my legs in a criss cross way apparently you can't say Indian style anymore I honestly learned that term in grade school lol. But not it's considered racist...
indian style sitting under google images popped this up
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What's funny is this picture also came up too!
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I seriously can't do that. My ballses cry and scream WHY YOU DO? So, I don't.
My guess is guys like that either have small junk or maybe they trained themselves to cope with the pain so they can be more beta. I dunno, man, just throwing out ideas here.
I have sat like that.. When I was young.. Like - 10 Now I don't
The key to sitting like that is letting your balls and penis slide downward below where your legs are not squeezing them..
And also it's possible for me because I am a grower..
I transform from 2 inches to 7 inches when necessary...
When not necessary it shrinks back..
As per your question most black guys aren't grower.. So yeah.. They can slide their package below.. And cannot sit like that
I haven't ever noticed it was a thing that white guys did, and other guys didn't. Men used to sit like that, while women just crossed their ankles.
I find myself sitting like above often, just because it's more comfortable than "figure 4" sitting.
I don't know what you've been smoking. I sit like this
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I only sit like that when I want somewhere to rest my hands on when typing on a phone OR when I have a boner 😂
I don't... I sit with my right leg over my left leg
Because it is the comfiest position, nothing more, nothing les ^_^
I don't understand why any guy sits like that. It's uncomfy
I mean, I don't wanna squeeze my balls
You won't know how it feels lol but it's not exactly comfortable
I like the chaps in the comments complaining about a generalised statement as if it is the end of the world
I don't understand why any guy sits like that. My brother does that and I find it weird.
I did, he said it's normal. I was like 'squashing your balls is not normal'
14 I think
Yes.
What's funny?
I just tried sitting like that and it hurts
I do know it. He's 14
Yes. And I checked it and he is indeed 14
He didn't even know when my mom was born so he's worse
We had to get passports and you get those questions to validate he's actually the kid of my mom. He was unable to answer that lol
We do.
As an excuse, we usually celebrate 2/3 birthdays at a time because birthdays are so close to each other
I retract that. That was stupid
Indeed it's worse
I know
Lmao
Lol this question was reported for being offensive
If I click on feed on the browser I can see the reported posts
Reported does not necessarily mean hidden. Only higher level mods and admins can do that, whereas everyone can report something. If it was hidden, people couldn't respond.
Oh okay, well I got the message that it was hidden.
Fri, Jun 01 02:28 PM
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Question Title: Why do white guys usually sit like this?
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Question Title: Why do white guys usually sit like this?
Can you also see who reports it?
Didn't know that obviously, it is good that the admins thought it was alright. People can be so sensitive.
I don't think I can see who reported it.
it's certainly ridiculous. So many things for no reason at all reported.
Even if there is a clear question, it's reported as 'no question's. Something that is about standards of a person in dating IN THE DATING SEGMENT is reported as 'no sexuality topic'
It's ridiculous
Reporting questions is fine as long as it's justified. However 90% of the questions I've seen reported in that thingy are just reported for no reason
If my stuff is reported then I could see it in the same tab I think, but I barely ever post anything so it won't pop up in there.
I think so that the mods - and you only become a mod if you have a good track record regarding reporting - can see to it as well whether it should go
You're welcome
I am brown. I sit like this.
@nbbn5 sahi hai ya nahi?
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Looks like that would hurt really bad
I sit like this
Nah I sit like this
I kinda sit my ankle on top of my knee when I sit. I don't even think I could sit like that if I tried. Just tried. Nope. Too little room for the boys
Typical beta stance, White bois are over.
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I can never sit like this, its soo damn irritating for me, lol
I hardly ever see men sitting like that. They've usually got the legs separated to each end of the room. #menspreading 😂
"Menspreading" that's a new one thought it was #manspreading tbh
This is Generation Yuppie. Everyone has to be the same. Being masculine or multidimensional is a crime now. So this is the "non toxic" way to sit now... because we don't want to offend anyone. You're welcome. *I'm actually not White by the way, but in a place now FULL of guys like this, and women LOVE those guys. They're "non threatening.*
@xctmnt Depends on locale. Where I grew up was rated #2 for "Most Masculine City" in the country. Columbus, Ohio. And I had no problem attracting women there. Of course, I don't dress like Magnum, P. I. and act like a sitcom bi sexual. Now I'm in Austin, Yuppie bi sexual heaven. And women don't want ANYTHING to do with me. So it depends on where you are. Jersey? You can a MAN. Raleigh or Denver or here? Better look like Charlie Sheen here, or else!
Maybe only kiddy fiddlers sit like that. Despise this creep.
Lol, where I live not even the girls sit like that.
Kingston, Jamaica
A tad racist, don't you think? I don't sit that way, ever. I never have. I never will.
You're generalizing. That's what I meant by that. I've been hated on and discriminated against. I know what it feels like.
Look, you're 21. I'm 46. I've been a lot of places. One of them was a bar one time; on the south side of a city that has a large population of African Americans. I was told by the bartender that my "kind" wasn't welcome there. It was obviously apparent by the people around me. I meant no offense to anyone; I just wanted a drink. I could care less what color someone's skin is. I'm fine drinking with anyone. But that was pure racism.
It's stereotyping girl. A racial stereotype. That can come off as racist.
How can you not see that as racism? Obviously I'm white. They pretty much kicked me out of there. I didn't do anything. I didn't say anything. I was happy being with people. I don't care what they look like. But I guess it matters to them.
Stop it with that racism shit. Are you kidding right now?
@Streamhopper
She's referring to this question as non-racist, implying since you've experienced the racism at the bar that you should know that this (this being the question) shouldn't come close.
@DevikaButts95 I don’t think it’s racist at all just my experience and I didn’t say anything negative about it
Whether you think it's racist or not is irrelevant as it comes off a little racist, it being a stereotype and all.
That being said, it's hardly negative, and I wouldn't really see it as a big deal. Everyone's a little racist, as the Avenue Q song goes. This is a big hooplah over nothing.
*sighs* Fine. I'm not going to debate this further. It isn't productive.
I'm sorry. I didn't mean to sound like a dick.
@Streamhopper
You're good fam, you are right it is a tad racist it just doesn't really matter in the end in this scenario. It's not like an awful thing to say, just a tad presumptuous.
@DevikaButts95 go look up the definition racism. I’d say you have a pretty good life if you consider this racism.
Yea the very first definition from merriam webster:
"a belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race"
Specifically, the determinant of human traits part.
@DevikaButts95 do you just purposely not read they thinking you’re superior. It would had been racist if I said it’s wrong sitting like this and Asian guys do not sit like that because they are better.
I did say it came off a little racist as it matches a little of the description. Fully read that part of the definition.
Racial stereotype is more the words I'd use to describe it anyways.
But also this definition:
"racial prejudice or discrimination"
With this definition of discrimination:
"the act of making or perceiving a difference"
@DevikaButts95 you’re reaching. This is nowhere near harmful just a question. You’re really annoying. Go suck a white guys dick or something.
I think I said it's not harmful already, but that comment is just plain being a prick. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 I know. Because you keep reaching and nagging if I didn’t know better I’d think you’re a butthurt white guy.
I think it's just fair to admit it's a little bit racist is all, but it's not in a negative way so it doesn't matter. Wouldn't make anyone a bad person here. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 for the last time. Racism means thinking one race is better than the other. That doesn’t come near my question. So no, it’s not even a tad. Stop reaching.
I mean all I can say is yikes girl. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 back to you girl.
That's truly reaching right there. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 you would know everything about reaching wouldn’t you.
I mean I quoted definitions for you. Stereotypes tend to be considered racist. I really don't know what you want, that's hardly reaching, it makes actual sense. Lmao. You're so upset and defensive over nothing, it's not a big deal.
@DevikaButts95 there is a difference between stereotypes and racism. And my QUESTION is neither.
@DevikaButts95 I’m pretty sure you’re just trolling at this point.
No like "something conforming to a fixed or general pattern;" is the legitimate definition of stereotype in this context, a racial stereotype being specifically a race of people conforming to a fixed or general pattern. Like. I really don't know what to say, lmao.
@DevikaButts95 if you’re not than I feel bad for you getting all worked up about a question on the internet that isn’t offensive and not even about you.
I'm not the one worked up. LMAO. I'm more just like "how can someone deliberately choose to be like this."
Well I mean I am worked up over the stereotype thing, that's just insanity. Lmao. Like it's also funny but that's just like how are you that far gone? But I wasn't worked up until then. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 girl, please get a life
Girl, don't be a prick. LMAO.
@DevikaButts95 if I’m a prick for asking a sincere question, so be it.
No, you're a prick for the responses here girl. I already agree with you on this being overall not belligerent or negative or anything. It's a harmless stereotype. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 where exactly are you still here for?
Well I was kinda talking to Streamhopper as he was clearly a little insulted by the question, and I was just trying to let him know he was right to call it racist, but it's not really a big deal so no need to get worked up about.
Now I'm just finding a whole lot about you. Lmao.
@DevikaButts95 likewise. Understanding the meaning of racism is apparently very hard for some people.
@DevikaButts95 sad
@DevikaButts95 @omgjassy I'm sorry for what this turned into; I was shocked to see 30 messages when I logged in again tonight. My original intent was to only express my opinion, and I didn't mean to offend anyone.
Hey man, you don't owe an apology.
A nice person would have said to you "I'm sorry it came off as racist, but it's harmless. I mean nothing negative by it." or something of the sort.
Instead of "no i'm not a racist".
@DevikaButts95 you see this is where you are wrong. Not that I expect you to know anything about being nice. I don’t have to or want to be nice it’s just a sincere question I asked for sincere answers, not butthurt girls screaming racism that isn’t anywhere seen. Now I’m going to block you because you’re really annoying. Instead of calling out real racism you call this racism lol I can’t.
I don't think most white guys usually sit like this. At all. I can't think of a single time I've ever seen that.
I can't speak for all white guys but I sit that way because it's comfortable. Pretty simple.
Considered "classy". Old folks do it.
There was a point when everyone sat like that, like the 20's to 60's.
It's because we've been shamed by the feminists for "manspreading." lol
Me also sitting like this sometimes, BC its comfortable.
Because if we open them we get called pedo or sexual harassers.
Eh. I'm white and if I sit with legs crossed, its ankle over the opposite knee. I don't find that position comfortable at all
I haven't seen a white guy sit like that in a long time.
I thought only certain people cross it like that, but it looks really feminine
It means you're #winning
usually? You mean rarely? You're full of crap if you're honestly say that most do. I know thousands of guys personally and I've never seen one sit like that more than a time or two.
I'm white and I don't
I'm not sure if you know this or not but people on the internet are full of shit. ;) and I see a LOT of comments on here saying that they DON'T sit like that so how is that "all white guys"? You're one of those special people that judge an entire group of people by the actions of one or a few, right?
They don't. Skinny guys from the 80's do.
in my country all the men sit like that
Lebanon but all over the middle east they sit like that in general.
As you know i am extremely well endowed and i rarely encounter any discomfort sitting like that.
HOW THE HELL CAN THIS BE RACIST?
I've literally never done that or seen any guy that does that.
I've noticed people doing it more too.
I never sit like that. It's uncomfortable.
Agreed: We should have more rules of how to sit.
Lmao I never sit like that.
We don't. We're not that flexible.
They’re hiding their boners?
They do? I guess I never got the memo...
I do that too, it's comfortable.
i think it was a trend
Too keep our cocks from blasting black girls faces until the proper moment.
I'm a white guy and I'm offended
Omg lol 😂😂
You know there's a private messaging feature on the app and online right? You two can go there and hash out your relationship.
@21feminist Sorry. I will pm her
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i can , but why do you ask , and i am brown
yeah somehow they do, it's kinda strange right
Lol uncomfortable , how do they do that
Cuz we’re white
Sorry you got hidden
I want to know too
I've only seen 1 white guy actually do that...
Nope... I haven't noticed or seen a white guy sit like that except 1 guy.
OMG Jassy stahp it!😭
I just find it very comfortable
I also sit like @LegateLanius
The ones I know IRL don't.
Umm do they or are you just being racist?
Lol 😂 😂😂
Not all white guys do this
No clue. 😂
because gay
i didn't know it was only one race who did that?
So where in the question does it actually say that white guys are the only ones who do that?
@tartaarsaus these people are reaching so far.
your title, asshole
"why do white guys usually sit like this" does not imply that it's only white guys that sit like this.
Specifying one group does not mean that that group is the only group that does that
well she didn't exactly say "black guys", soooo
Once again, that does not imply they don't do that. It doesn't imply that only white guys do that
if she said "white guy", she's implying only one race does it. if she had said "men do it", then she would be implying ALL men do it
No, it doesn't imply that only white guys do that.
she said "why do white guys", if she had said "why do guys", then it wouldn't have
but she said WHITE guys
get over it
all im saying is, you SAID WHITE. implying only ONE race does it
get over it, TROLL
I'm telling the truth, you obviously can't handle it
lmao ummmm
why not?
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